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TheWriter

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For the last couple of years the woman I try to share my life with, and I have been arguing. A lot resognated to where she tunes me out, and ignores how I feel. When something revolves around her, she gets all happy. When the attention does not revolve around her, she gets pretty bent out of shape.

The first year we where together, she had to take me to my doctors appointment. She was snapping at me because she was tired, this is how WWIII happened in my own life. Many of times when we argued it was because she demanded me to be around her 24/7. She had told me that when I die, her and her daughter had better get the money. That she is a woman, she can do as she pleases.

When I ask her about it, she says, "OMG, it was just a joke." Those are not jokes by far. We hardly have a decent conversation because I get upset with her because she does everything oposate from what I try to help her with. My stress levels stay through the roof because she really truly does not show that she cares about me, she cares about my wallet.

I told her before, that she is starting to turn me into something I seriously can not stand. I am starting to see her in very negative lights. One day she changes for the good and we have a greta day, then the next day back to stress.

I told her I had to be out of work because I do not feel well, I wish they would just disable me because of my health. She says, "that is all you care about." A lady at work told her that she is very lucky to have me because I am a good person, "do not tell him that." Is all she said.

When she started work she got very mad at me for knowing how the company runs, "YOU THINK YOU KNOW EVERYTHING!" I have been there a good long time, so yeah I know the process. I tried to hug her, "let go of me" she threw her hands around hitting me, just because a cigerett was more important than spending 5 minutes with me.

I need stregnth because this relationship was built on a lie she had made me believe. Money is her favorite thing, not a heart. She would rather watch me open my wallet, than look into my eyes. The gas shortages here are going nuts, I made a suggestion to as if why not make it easier and wait till tomorrow because I know she is tired.

She gotten the iPhone 10 X, she said she was joking when she pransed around like a child and said she is going to get the 12. I asked her why she did that she said it was just a joke GOSH!

The Love Of Money Is The Root Of All Evil.
 

2ndTimothyGroup

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To be honest, I don't think that prayer is going to do much at this point. You're in a sinful relationship and it is unreasonable to ask the Lord to help you control only a part of that sinful life.

If you want prayer to be effective, you've got to obey.

James 1:5-8 NLT - "If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. Such people should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do."

I'm sure the sex was, or even is pretty cool . . . but the Lord is for the Body and the Body is for the Lord. If you have been physically circumcised, that circumcision is a reflection of the alleged Circumcised Heart that Christ offered to you. Be sure not to abuse that Holy Covenant marked in your flesh. That's right . . . each time a man places that symbol of the Covenant into something sinful, something other than his wife . . . it is an abomination before the Lord. For in by doing such, we show absolutely no reverence for the Scriptures . . . or His Holy Son.

Food for thought . . . :D
 

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I will pray for God to extricate you from this toxic relationship.
 
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TheWriter

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Straight up . . . but that also means that she cannot be sexual with anyone else . . . lest she be a sinner. That's how it works! :D
Very true, the true reason behind my op, is for my own stregnth, not for the realationship lol
That part is really over anyway, she still calls and tries to make excuses to leave work. makes me feel its because i am home out of work with illness.

Narcasist scares me. Keyword on that sentence.