That actually is Calvinism... It's a contradiction that Calvinists ignore. Usually Calvinists just say it's a mystery or it's beyond our understanding. Calvinists have to skip explaining or facing a few things to make sense of Calvinism. Or the "It's a hard scripture to understand" statement is given.
Here's some of what the Western confessions of faith says... which is Calvinism...
Chapter X
Of Effectual Calling
I. All those whom God hath predestinated unto life, and those only, He is pleased, in His appointed time, effectually to call,[1] by His Word and Spirit,[2] out of that state of sin and death, in which they are by nature to grace and salvation, by Jesus Christ;[3] enlightening their minds spiritually and savingly to understand the things of God,[4] taking away their heart of stone, and giving unto them an heart of flesh;[5] renewing their wills, and, by His almighty power, determining them to that which is good,[6] and effectually drawing them to Jesus Christ:[7] yet so, as they come most freely, being made willing by His grace.[8]
^ People are determined to that which is good..... YET they come MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOST freely
That's the sense of Calvinism.
Here's some of what the Western confessions of faith says... which is Calvinism...
Chapter X
Of Effectual Calling
I. All those whom God hath predestinated unto life, and those only, He is pleased, in His appointed time, effectually to call,[1] by His Word and Spirit,[2] out of that state of sin and death, in which they are by nature to grace and salvation, by Jesus Christ;[3] enlightening their minds spiritually and savingly to understand the things of God,[4] taking away their heart of stone, and giving unto them an heart of flesh;[5] renewing their wills, and, by His almighty power, determining them to that which is good,[6] and effectually drawing them to Jesus Christ:[7] yet so, as they come most freely, being made willing by His grace.[8]
^ People are determined to that which is good..... YET they come MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOST freely
That's the sense of Calvinism.
You know so little about our beliefs, you don't even know its the 'Westminster Confession of Faith'. This confession was written in 1644 and the Presbyterians hold to it. The 2nd London Baptist Confession of Faith of 1689 is what reformed/particular Baptists hold to. The main difference in those is the WCoF holds to paedobaptism, whereas the LBCoF holds to credobaptistism.
But read up on your opponents more. Your lack of knowing us and our beliefs show through on every post like it has neon lights.