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About anger:

James 1:19-20
Therefore, my dear brothers, let every person be quick to listen but slow to speak, slow to get angry; for a person's anger does not accomplish G-d's righteousness!

Ecclesiastes 7:9
Don't be quick to get angry, for [only] fools nurse anger.

Proverbs 14:17
He who is quick-tempered does stupid things, and one who does vile things is hated.

Proverbs 16:32
He who controls his temper is better than a war-hero, he who rules his spirit better than he who captures a city.

Proverbs 15:18
Hot-tempered people stir up strife, but patient people quiet quarrels.

Matthew 5:22
But I tell you that anyone who nurses anger against his brother will be subject to judgment.

Ephesians 4:31-32
Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, violent assertiveness, and slander, along with all spitefulness. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted; and forgive each other, just as G-d has also forgiven you.

There is much more on the subject of anger :)
 
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I believe G-d is more pleased when we work to improve our walk with Him and when we help support and lift up others in their walk with Him, than when we play the game of finger pointing :)

Just my opinion. If it is out of order, I apologize and will retract my statement.
only one thing, To clear this finger pointing up, is that when you point a finger at someone else take note that God design it , that your remaining fingers are pointing right back at you and the other part of your hand the Thumb is usually pointing Up at God, for what ye have done unto the least of these , ye have done unto me
 
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only one thing, To clear this finger pointing up, is that when you point a finger at someone else take note that God design it , that your remaining fingers are pointing right back at you
Exactly! That's why you point all five ;)
 

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One thing I have learned is that we can never tell another person what to do. It does not work, and it will almost always lead to that person doing what is wrong to an even greater extent. When one asks questions, then we can show the way, but when we approach them in their error, we are not going to accomplish much unless the person is opened up to instruction by God. And if we argue with such a one, telling them how they are wrong, we have joined them in their sin.
 
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Let me say something here. I am not perfect! I am a sinner, maybe worse than any here. I know this by seeing Jesus as clearly as I can! I did not condemn Israel, and never would. I recognize what he is laboring under, and that is all I ever said. I tried to enter conversation with him, but to no avail. I stood between imoss and aspen to extend the hand of peace, because I knew that there could be no good from the way the conversation was going. I knew that aspen had posted a message which disturbed me, and I went back are searched to see if what I thought was true. I found that the post was not saying what I thought, and stated so. It was not clear, but it was not saying that all roads or paths lead to God. It did say that many religions have better acting members than christianity. I agree with this, whole heartedly. The only person here who I am upset with is Shad, and that is because he has set his mind and heart against the Holy Spirit and any teaching about Him that is not from him personally.

Jesus Christ came into this world to save sinners, and I am one of those.

Jesus Christ is perfect, and the Father's seed in us is perfect. John wrote about the 2 natures, as did Paul and others. We have a fleshly nature which is dead and sinful. We have a heavenly nature, which is perfect and not capable of sin. We have the Spirit of Christ, the Spirit of the Father, (same Spirit,) who is in us to teach us to live in the new nature which is from God, and not in the old nature which is destined to death and can only work death. He teaches us to walk not by knowledge or wisdom which we have gained, but by the love of God in all things and with all, so that in this walk, Jesus will be all, and in all.

The reason why you thought his post was supporting the all paths garbage is because it was posted in response to a video that included that so you have to read the posts in the context in which they are given and if you read his post after watching that video you get the context in which i received it. Perhaps I received it wrong but this is the context in which i received it and it was in response to my shock that Billy Graham would say the things he said on there.

That being said, after that I had to reflect on the fact that I would never have watched miktre's video if he would have posted as Billy Graham doesnt stand up for the faith... I would have rejected that immediately because of my love for this mans ministry & what he's done for the Lord. There was a whole lot on that video that saddened and disturbed me & that definitely flowed out into my treatment of the poster Aspen. Again I will state, I never identified him, he thinks thats cause I'm a coward, NO it was because I didnt want to happen on here exactly what did happen by attacking an individual. Somehow in all of this I've become a villan because I choose not to be wishy washy in my belief that we have to have a firm foundation deeply rooted in Christ lest we cause those new to the Lord or seeking to stumble in their knowledge of the way to the Father. Now seriously can we close this thread?
 
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Now seriously can we close this thread?
Colossians 3:15
Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.

I concur with imoss. This thread is obviously causing only strife, and peace should rule our hearts rather than contention.
 
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The passage in Eph does in no way encourage anger. This is an attempt of your using your knowledge of scripture to make God jump to your tune. Be angry if you want, either one.
Every believer is commanded to study and show themselves approved, that includes you and me. If you don't want to bother to study these things that the Holy Spirit has specifically inspired in great detail by using the Greek and Hebrew languages, then maybe you are not as gung-ho as you have lead us to believe concerning the things of the Spirit. You do believe that the Holy Spirit inspired and moved men to write the scriptures? The Spirit was very specific about the written word and you need to avail yourself of that so that you won't be ashamed by your own ignorance and you will learn to rightly divide the word of truth / 2Tim 2:15, 3:16. I hope that you will take God up on His offer and be a student of God's word. Some of us need to graduate from the 'milk' of elementary school and start taking some 'meaty' classes so that we can become skillful in the word of righteousness and discern between good and evil / Heb 5:12,13.
 
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The reason why you thought his post was supporting the all paths garbage is because it was posted in response to a video that included that so you have to read the posts in the context in which they are given and if you read his post after watching that video you get the context in which i received it. Perhaps I received it wrong but this is the context in which i received it and it was in response to my shock that Billy Graham would say the things he said on there.

That being said, after that I had to reflect on the fact that I would never have watched miktre's video if he would have posted as Billy Graham doesnt stand up for the faith... I would have rejected that immediately because of my love for this mans ministry & what he's done for the Lord. There was a whole lot on that video that saddened and disturbed me & that definitely flowed out into my treatment of the poster Aspen. Again I will state, I never identified him, he thinks thats cause I'm a coward, NO it was because I didnt want to happen on here exactly what did happen by attacking an individual. Somehow in all of this I've become a villan because I choose not to be wishy washy in my belief that we have to have a firm foundation deeply rooted in Christ lest we cause those new to the Lord or seeking to stumble in their knowledge of the way to the Father. Now seriously can we close this thread?
I appreciate everything that you have contributed in all of your posts. I would like to add before this thread is closed that every man must prove his own work and bear his own burden / Gal 6:3-7.

3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.
4 But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another.
5 For every man shall bear his own burden.
6 Let him that is taught in the word communicate unto him that teacheth in all good things.
7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap
 

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Every believer is commanded to study and show themselves approved, that includes you and me. If you don't want to bother to study these things that the Holy Spirit has specifically inspired in great detail by using the Greek and Hebrew languages, then maybe you are not as gung-ho as you have lead us to believe concerning the things of the Spirit. You do believe that the Holy Spirit inspired and moved men to write the scriptures? The Spirit was very specific about the written word and you need to avail yourself of that so that you won't be ashamed by your own ignorance and you will learn to rightly divide the word of truth / 2Tim 2:15, 3:16. I hope that you will take God up on His offer and be a student of God's word. Some of us need to graduate from the 'milk' of elementary school and start taking some 'meaty' classes so that we can become skillful in the word of righteousness and discern between good and evil / Heb 5:12,13.
If you expect everyone to use the scriptures as you have, good luck. I do not "use" the scriptures, I let the Spirit teach me through the scriptures. I know that as something holy and from God, that I am not worthy to "use" the scriptures.

If your study of Greek and Hebrew has lead you to believe that it is good to become angry from your "use" of the scriptures, that is up to you.

And for your information, gung-ho, is Chinese for "strive for harmony."
 
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Colossians 3:15
Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.

I concur with imoss. This thread is obviously causing only strife, and peace should rule our hearts rather than contention.

being one body is a doctrine of the new covenant if you are following judaism why are you teaching others to be under the new covenant, dude that is two-faced I practice one way but teach you another, you want us under peace as you see it , is what you mean right, for you are right about christians doctrines are wrong and your way is right, so to be at peace we must walk with you, for if we agree to disagree then there will always be contention
 
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You are lumping a lot of people into one group.

I am naming the behavior I have seen on this thread since I joined several weeks ago.
But your reply was directed toward IMoss. What is interesting is that in the following replies, you do lump together groups of people. Your all over the board with this, but you are replying to Imoss. Read your post:


I am not sure if this is fair - I name names all the time. I try to make my posts clear and direct. I think Imoss is the person with the problem of not naming names. However, I am considering what you are saying because, apparently I did not communicate my last message well - you did not seem to understand it and you usually understand my posts.

I have never seen IMoss claim to have never sinned,


Me neither - I never said she did. But I have seen VW claim this.


I've never seen her say anything like what you are saying about Israel


You are right me neither - once again - I never said she did. That would be Cup-of-ruin and miktre. Have you forgotten about the 3rd temple thread?

and I've never seen her reject the trinity.


Right again - I never said she did, but many people have done so on this site, and not only have they been allowed to remain members, I haven't heard a peep about it from other members.


I am not sure what the litmus test measures to identify acceptable people with heretical beliefs, but once you get that pass - you can say whatever you want without having a negative thread dedicated to you.


And they seem to be accepted with open arms - for some reason the rejection of this most basic of doctrines, the dividing line between Christianity and heresy, is not a problem because?
Most of the people you mentioned are on the fringes. As for basic doctrines, you are hetero-orthodox on your view of the Bible and salvation, but you have not been shunned.

I am finally getting it - you are saying that I spoke generally when I was directing my post to Imoss! Ok, I got it - I could have done a better job of being clear - I apologize.

And again, your own prejudices as you assume that anyone who would disagree with you is anti-intellectual and then there is this "I must be wasting my time here" thing.

Yes. I am frustrated that I have had to spend so much time defending my beliefs to a person who refuses to use reason. It seems futile. This is the anti-intellectual part. It has nothing to do with my opinion of the people on this board and to have you imply this seems a bit hypersensitive to me. If I really thought everyone here was stupid, why would I speak to you as as adults? I try to post information that is well thought out - if I thought you were are stupid, I would simply grunt out one liners, without believing the anyone would get the information anyway. If I was being listened to and disagree with - I would stand up and cheer; however my character is being assassinated based on distortion.

But you do speak down to people. And when someone chaffs against it, you react with incredulity.

Here is the deal with speaking down to people; I believe that it is difficult to be clear; while being misunderstood, and misrepresented (whether Imoss is correct or incorrect in here assertions about me - she has a hair trigger) when you have a minority point of view. I am really trying not to speak down to people - I really do not believe I am smarter or more enlightened than anyone here. I believe everyone who professes Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior is a Christian - and I believe anyone who can articulate their faith well enough to post on a board is intelligent. It is strange to me that you guys think I am talking down to you when I am the person presenting the broader view of Christianity - I am much more inclusive in my beliefs, but I am being seen as exclusive?? I am not sure what to think about this.

One last thing. I think it has been difficult for me to have to take so much time and effort to reassure everyone that I am a real Christian, that I am trying to strengthen people's faith by stretching their ideas about God (here's where I think you might believe I am being snobby, but I am not - I think you guys stretch my faith and understanding of doctrine as well), and I am not trying to destroy anyone's faith, and I am not trying to make people feel stupid, and I am not the Devil trying to attack you. In fact, and I think you have noticed this, when I get tired I start resenting that people like Greatkraw, Shad, and even M.snail, can say anything they want without having to explain themselves. People take their words as authoritative because they give them the benefit of the doubt. Now, I do not expect that anyone should take my words as authoritative - nor do I expect you guys to even believe what I am writing, but when I am tired, I really would like the benefit of the doubt that I am not the antichrist - maybe I am asking to much, but when I am tired I am tired!

What do you mean by that? Have you come to bring us poor ignorant folk the light of your intellect?
Because you said that you are "wasting your time here." Wasting you time because of what? This is like the guy who would text that he was wiping the dust off his shoes. Whatever your intent was it sounded like you were blessing us with your presence.

Ok, maybe it was not fair of me to say I was wasting my time here - I was tired and frustrated and frankly, exasperated at Imoss, because I thought we had settled this whole thing and I was wrong, she is apparently digging in her heels and leading a crusade against my evil presence on this board.

Do you really believe this? I am really blown away that I am being seen as arrogant in this situation - wow. I can understand it if you all disagree with me - my ideas are not mainstream - I do not expect you to agree, but I guess I do expect that my ideas would spark conversation, rather than accusations that I am teaching heretical ideas and that I am attacking orthodox beliefs and destroying the faith of young or confused Christians.


As for Israel, he started this conversation, and he's the one that spun it up.

Once again, I do not agree with Israel (the member), however, I do believe that he has been punished and dismissed unfairly, because he does not agree with certain people in here who must not be disagreed with.
Israel has a history here and he's a big boy. Try having an extended and friendly conversation. He entered into that conversation because he saw a rift and was taking advantage of it. He was saying that not being a self-proclaimed non-Christian should not be a note of caution for those who come in expecting conversations between Christians. He thought that the conflict between you and IMoss would lend help to his contention and he was right.

Ok - I hope it is clear now that I was actually referring to Cup and Miktre - not Israel - I was tired and I confused Cup's favorite topic - Israel with his name. I apologize, Israel. Now, you comment is frustrating because you are defending Israel based on nothing he has done, but the fact that he has your benefit of the doubt - I am called into question every time I post because I do not have the benefit of the doubt. The fact that Cup of ruin can post pics of dead babies and I cannot even make a generalization is all because you give him the benefit of the doubt. Now, there is nothing I can do about this, but I think it is important to state what is actually going on.

You are angry at IMoss because you believe that she lied about you, but she spoke exactly the impression that many have of you, that you are most reluctant about the truths of the gospel that are most socially unacceptable.

You recognize that I am angry at imoss because I believe she lied about me. Let me clarify - I am anger at imoss because she continues to misrepresented my beliefs based on several posts. Now, you seem to be justifying her misrepresentation of my doctrinal understanding and character, based on what other people believe about me on this board. Since when do people's opinion define or justify lies?
IMoss posted the entries that made her think that. You have the opportunity to clarify or repudiate them. But even though most remained silent, few were surprised by that understanding. If she misunderstood you, and her post indicates that she is open to that possibility, than she did not lie, she misunderstood. You drew a line in the sand, when you used the word "liar".

The problem is that I would not change a word I wrote - and every time she re-posts my comments I am more convince and want to believe that people will vindicate me bast on the evidence. Sorry, but her judgment that I am not a Christian (a judgment that I would surely be banned for if I wrote it about someone else) is not based on any evidence - and if you read any of my other posts in here where I declare Jesus as my Lord and Savior, a reader would have to determine, based on my statement that I am indeed a Christian.

If you believe that I am too reluctant about the truths of the gospel, why not ask me to clarify my position? The reason I think Imoss does not ask is because she misread my posts, made a big deal about them and is too prideful to back off and the more she continues, the least likely she will safe face.

As far as being embarrassed by the gospel - I simply am not. I am tired of Christians trying to justify their narrow, misunderstandings of Christianity and the double standard they place on God.
Again, I don't understand how you can read that reply and not see it as a bit arrogant. Who are you talking about? All Christians, because that is exactly what you just said.


I think you have used a good word - I do feel a bit incredulous when people mistake me for an antichrist! It is shocking. The funny thing is, I avoid Catholic rooms because I am seen as too Protestant - yet here I am either too Catholic, or too antichrist. I have a hard time believing it because I do so much explaining - explanations that are never expected from others, and I have been so forthcoming about being a Christian. If you are thinking it is my vocabulary that is condescending - I am no expert on words - I still do not know what hetero-orthodox means and I had to look up incredulous.


All I know is that I have apologized more than anyone else, since I have been a member here; I have changed my mind several times; I have tried to clarify my words; and I have complimented people, quite a bit. If this is not considered humble behavior, it is certainly sincere. Finally, until people decide to believe my words I use to declare myself a Christian and give me the same benefit of the doubt that you guys give others here - I see this same conflict re-occurring.


 
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Now someone has a post to stop your post. Why would anyone who is a Christian not want a post that says Jesus is the only way. Jesus is the only way. God bless and open the eyes of anyone who doesn't know that.
 
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Bless your heart Aspen. & no sarcasm.
Bless you too Imoss - I will pray for you, please pray for me. Also, if anyone else reads this please pray for my wife - she is recovering from surgery - thanks!
 
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Lord bless aspens wife. Give her peace, strength and total healing in Jesus.
 
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AMEN! & give aspen strength to do all the extra things that are necessary when one goes through these times of trail and I'm sorry for being an unneccessary stress in an already stressful time. We praise you Lord, you are the Lord who heals or gives strength to endure. In Jesus name.
 
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Bless you too Imoss - I will pray for you, please pray for me. Also, if anyone else reads this please pray for my wife - she is recovering from surgery - thanks!
May it be Your will, L-rd my G-d and the G-d of my Forefathers, that You quickly send refuah sh'lemah from heaven, spiritual healing and physical healing to Ron's wife among the other patients of Your People. Ki el melekh rofei ne'eman verachaman attah. Baruch attah Adonai rofe cholei ammo Yisra'el. For O G-d, for You are our faithful and compassionate Healer and King. Blessed are you, L-rd, the Healer of the sick of Israel.

Amen.
 
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Hey - you are both awesome - thanks!
 
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All I know is that I have apologized more than anyone else, since I have been a member here; I have changed my mind several times; I have tried to clarify my words; and I have complimented people, quite a bit. If this is not considered humble behavior, it is certainly sincere. Finally, until people decide to believe my words I use to declare myself a Christian and give me the same benefit of the doubt that you guys give others here - I see this same conflict re-occurring.


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I will do my best not to misjudge you. I will pray for your wife.
 
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About anger:

James 1:19-20
Therefore, my dear brothers, let every person be quick to listen but slow to speak, slow to get angry; for a person's anger does not accomplish G-d's righteousness!

Ecclesiastes 7:9
Don't be quick to get angry, for [only] fools nurse anger.

Proverbs 14:17
He who is quick-tempered does stupid things, and one who does vile things is hated.

Proverbs 16:32
He who controls his temper is better than a war-hero, he who rules his spirit better than he who captures a city.

Proverbs 15:18
Hot-tempered people stir up strife, but patient people quiet quarrels.

Matthew 5:22
But I tell you that anyone who nurses anger against his brother will be subject to judgment.

Ephesians 4:31-32
Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, violent assertiveness, and slander, along with all spitefulness. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted; and forgive each other, just as G-d has also forgiven you.

There is much more on the subject of anger :)
your corrupt scriptures teaches false doctrines, I won't cover all of them just this key one, your translation leaves out a key phrase here "without a cause" as most modern translations do:

Matthew 5:22
But I tell you that anyone who nurses anger against his brother will be subject to judgment.

Mt 5:22But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.
look and see how dangerous it is if we take meanings of things out of scriptures, I am not sure which translation you are using but if we say that if someone is anger with No exception such as if they have a cause is in danger/ subject to judgement then we just said that Jesus was in subject to judgement,, for this verse is referring to Jesus looking at someone with anger: you may want to check your translation

Mr 3:5And when he had looked round about on them WITH ANGER, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts, he saith unto the man, Stretch forth thine hand. And he stretched it out: and his hand was restored whole as the other.


Eph 4:26Be ye angry, and SIN NOT: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:
 
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