Disrespect? If Mary were here, I'm positive that she would go to Rome and set people straight regarding all of these false teachings about her and that she is not what the RCC has made her out to be. Just because Mary was at the foot of the cross that doesn't mean that she was any of those things mentioned. The other Mary's and other women were at the cross as well, that doesn't make them co-mediators or co-redeemers. Mary being at the foot of the cross doesn't prove anything other than she being a grieving mother. It doesn't make her a savior. Here is what scripture has to say about the One who alone provided salvation:
"You are worthy to take the scroll and to open its seals, because you were slain, and with your blood you purchased for God persons from every tribe and language and people and nation. You have made them to be a kingdom and priests to serve our God, and they will reign on the earth.” (Rev.5:9-10)
It was the Lamb, Jesus Christ, who alone purchased people for God by the shedding of his blood. Just prior to that, a mighty angel cries out asking who is worthy to open the scroll and break its seals. If Mary was all that the RCC says she is, then when that cry goes out for someone worthy to open the scroll, we should have seen Mary raising her hand, but what does it say? No one in heaven or on earth or under the earth was worthy to open the scroll and that includes Mary. The only who was worthy is the Lamb and that because he shed his blood for all.