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cmarieh

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Yes, the United States Supreme Court (1963)

removed prayer and Holy Bibles from public education.

Today, college graduates don't have enough knowledge

to understand academic theology

or enough faith to believe scripture .



I remember when I was in High School a small of group of students including myself would pray at the flagpole for all the students and staff across the country, our president, and our government leaders, both state and federal. We would get mocked daily for this, but at that time we could not get into trouble for doing it. Granted we started doing that ten years ago and proceeded until I graduated in 08, although I still pray for our country, maybe more so. We would even have a weekly bible study during our lunch time and we agreed we would still carry our bibles with us and not one person couldn't tell us that we couldn't have them on campus. I honestly do not understand what happened to the first amendment, the freedom of speech, press, and religion.

Now it is cursive writing that is being eliminated from the elementary schools.. I have recently come across some California teenagers who cannot read cursive. Is this just in California?

Since I'm in the process of writing the entire bible in script, it might be worth millions - in about 200 years? If anyone can read it. At any rate, I love to write. There is a flow to it that just isn't in printing. It will be a lost art.

More and more education such as critical evaluating will need to come from the parents in family discussions. However, I think I learned more from books I read than I ever did in school. And that was 50 years ago.

Are today's children reading everything they can get their hands on that has value? I don't think so. That is sad.
Wow! I didn't think it got this bad. This world keeps confirming why I will homeschool my children when God says it is time to get married and have kids. I want them to get a wholesome education and not get educated by the things of this world.

We just need to keep praying for our children because they are our future and a spiritual uprising will come and so many people come to get to know who God truly is and will hold truth to his word. This country needs this so bad.
 

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But when they were children, were they very social with others? Or did they seem withdrawn, shy, anti social, or unresponsive around others who were new? Granted, a dominant personality type could change this.

Also, working at jobs that requires them to be social is a necessity to one's success. It is a given in the fact that they had to force themselves to learn that skill if they didn't do so as a child. Hence, why I encourage parents who homeschool their kids to learn how to deal with rejection and acceptance by others at an early age (by including their kids in some type of activity that would involve other children).
It sounds like you are saying that going to school makes kids more social? I know plenty of social homeschoolers.....I went to school and you could classify me as shy, withdrawn, or anti-social....I was bullied horribly and the teachers really didn't care. There are good and bad points to both types of schooling.
 
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It sounds like you are saying that going to school makes kids more social? I know plenty of social homeschoolers.....I went to school and you could classify me as shy, withdrawn, or anti-social....I was bullied horribly and the teachers really didn't care. There are good and bad points to both types of schooling.
I went to schools where they bullied me and I went to schools were they did not do so. But in either case, I made friends and I learned to deal with acceptance and rejection at a young age with real experience first hand with other kids. For children make friends with other kids at school and they develop their social skills. Surely you can see the logic that if you do not develop a certain muscle, it is not going to work all that well. Developing this muscle at an early age is a wise thing to do. Whether you enroll them in boyscouts or an art program or a base ball league, etc. Kids need to be around other kids at a young age. It's only natural.
 

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I went to schools where they bullied me and I went to schools were they did not do so. But in either case, I made friends and I learned to deal with acceptance and rejection at a young age with real experience first hand with other kids. For children make friends with other kids at school and they develop their social skills. Surely you can see the logic that if you do not develop a certain muscle, it is not going to work all that well. Developing this muscle at an early age is a wise thing to do. Whether you enroll them in boyscouts or an art program or a base ball league, etc. Kids need to be around other kids at a young age. It's only natural.
sadly, that is not what schools are completely like...there are children who are complete outcasts at schools...they never learn social skills, I have seen it....I agree that if you do not develop it wont work, but there are kids who can't develop this at school....
 
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sadly, that is not what schools are completely like...there are children who are complete outcasts at schools...they never learn social skills, I have seen it....I agree that if you do not develop it wont work, but there are kids who can't develop this at school....
Kids are antisocial regardless for a number of reasons. However, if you remove your kids away from other kids then how exactly are they going to develope this skill at home where there is no kids around? That's kinda of the point. In other words, a person is not going to learn how to ride a bike without practicing.
 

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Kids are antisocial regardless for a number of reasons. However, if you remove your kids away from other kids then how exactly are they going to develope this skill at home where there is no kids around? That's kinda of the point. In other words, a person is not going to learn how to ride a bike without practicing.
True, but there are other ways without sending them to school. School may not be the best way for kids to socialize....I have personally seen many kids not given the opportunity to practice socializing in school...
 
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cmarieh

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Kids are antisocial regardless for a number of reasons. However, if you remove your kids away from other kids then how exactly are they going to develope this skill at home where there is no kids around? That's kinda of the point. In other words, a person is not going to learn how to ride a bike without practicing.
Jason,

A lot of people that homeschool their children are involved with a homeschooling group and that the kids are able to interact with others and it gives the parents an opportunity to bounce ideas on how to effectively help their kids. A lot of these groups are Christian too.
 
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My children were raised in an inner city and were very popular .

They were respected throughout the neighborhood and very influential .

They had social interaction every day .

Today, they have life long friends .
 
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Word_Swordsman said:
The "adjustments" are adding a huge amount of subjective opinions that twist the data.
No they don't. The variables are pretty objective for the study and all would be important variables when considering education levels among schools.

There can't be anything wrong with averaging SAT or ACT scores between the school groups.
So how do you suggest controlling for heterogeneity?

There's nothing wrong with doing a study with SAT/ACT scores to look at different school types, btw. But you still have to use appropriate statistical techniques to analyze the data.

Do that first, report the actual raw data summary, then apply various adjustments to change the analysis to one's heart's desire, but leave the data alone.
The data in the study was "left alone." Raw data doesn't tell you much. But using raw data to prove a hypothesis without utilizing appropriate statistical methods would establish that you don't know statistics. Raw data does not establish causal connections or relationships among variables.

I don't believe family background changes a school's curriculum for a whole classroom. Public schools follow government curriculum, private schools being required only to meet minimum state requirements. Some public schools have stopped use of test score numbers, even forbidding the scoring of ball games.
Ok.

There is no way any sensible person can demonstrate, for instance, an inner city failing school in a broken district full of dropouts, plagued with violence against teachers, with relatively few students able to read or do simple math is statistically equal to an elite private school producing a very high percentage of graduates averaging very high SAT/ACT scores, successful employment, professionals, etc.
Has anyone argued to the contrary? In any case, so you just listed a bunch of variables that affect school performance: dropouts (ie, graduation rates), violent acts, and a "broken district" (whatever that is exactly). So if you were more interested in factors that affect performance rather than simply theorizing about them, you could test those variables empirically to estimate a size of effect. Previously on this thread, it was suggested that a decline in education levels was caused by the removal or prayer and bibles from schools. This is empiraclly testable and is a totally separate question from whether or not private schools outperform public schools.

Yes, private schools DO outperform public schools. The study I linked to on this thread even says as much, so I'm not sure why you keep bringing it up. The interesting question then is to figure out why. Is it because public schools banned prayer/bibles? I doubt it. If you want to argue in support of that though, by all means, do so.

Of course, manipulation of data through enough statistical analysis techniques can be made to demonstrate 'whatever', "adjusted" by parameters that don't fit all schools sampled. The parameters listed in that study indeed compares apples to prunes to bananas, not school type to school type. All the school types are obviously made the same type through manipulation of the data. Nobody with a lick of sense believes they are all the same. The approach of the study was skewed, even if they used typical statistical tools.
It's not "skewed" or "manipulated." By repeating this assertion, it's clear to me that it's because you probably just don't know how to do statistical analysis.

You can use statistical techniques to prove that someone's data is biased in some way though. But you haven't done this.

Our public schools are sold on Common Core, leaving parents unable to help their kids with homework. They can't find out how the teachers are trying to teach kids to do math. We haven't found one student that can do simple math without a bar graph on paper, or rows and columns to add, subtract, etc. But we know the private/church schools are teaching the old tried and true methods of rational thinking, and what the state requires. That's just one example of blindly following D of E guidelines, or doing what has been working.

The differences between the schools are huge! But our government is blind to that.
I dunno, this sounds like repetition of partisan politics to me. I'll leave this to someone else since I was only concerned with one claim on this thread.
 
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True, but there are other ways without sending them to school. School may not be the best way for kids to socialize....I have personally seen many kids not given the opportunity to practice socializing in school...
I never said I was against homeschooling at all. In fact, I think it is a great idea if one can also involve their children with other kids in some way. Also, the opportunity for kids to socialize in school is there. Yes, it depends on the school and the friendliness of the students and the type of kids who have similar interests to them. The key point is that they are around other kids so as to socialize.
 
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My children were raised in an inner city and were very popular .

They were respected throughout the neighborhood and very influential .

They had social interaction every day .

Today, they have life long friends .
Did you encourage your kids to go out and meet new friends? Some kids live in the country where there is not a lot of human contact or they live in a really bad neighborhood where it is unsafe to hang outside. Hence, why I encourage parents who do homeschool to stay in contact with kids in some way.
 
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Jason,

A lot of people that homeschool their children are involved with a homeschooling group and that the kids are able to interact with others and it gives the parents an opportunity to bounce ideas on how to effectively help their kids. A lot of these groups are Christian too.
This option is the one I would suggest for sure. However, I would also involve one's children in two other types of activities, though. One activity that would involve one of their major talents (Like art, music, acting, sports, etc.); And another activitiy that would be useful and get them outslde like boy-scouts, or something.
 

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I never said I was against homeschooling at all. In fact, I think it is a great idea if one can also involve their children with other kids in some way. Also, the opportunity for kids to socialize in school is there. Yes, it depends on the school and the friendliness of the students and the type of kids who have similar interests to them. The key point is that they are around other kids so as to socialize.
I must have misinterpreted what you wrote. I apologize for the confusion. However, I still don't think that socialization is the most important part of schooling. I think other aspects come before the need for socialization.
 
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I must have misinterpreted what you wrote. I apologize for the confusion. However, I still don't think that socialization is the most important part of schooling. I think other aspects come before the need for socialization.
I disagree. Socializing is an integral part of one's life experiences here on this Earth. Learning how to socialize the right way will help one to find the right job, help one make friends, a life mate, and to convey how they love others (If they are Christian). For we as believers are to preach the gospel and to love other people. In other words, a huge part in being a Christian relies upon one in being effective at knowing how to communicate to others. The best way to do this is at a young age so it will become natural to them.
 

kodiak

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I disagree. Socializing is an integral part of one's life experiences here on this Earth. Learning how to socialize the right way will help one to find the right job, help one make friends, a life mate, and to convey how they love others (If they are Christian). For we as believers are to preach the gospel and to love other people. In other words, a huge part in being a Christian relies upon one in being effective at knowing how to communicate to others. The best way to do this is at a young age so it will become natural to them.
I believe socialization is important, but it is not the most important part of school. School is about learning and gaining the skills necessary for these life experiences. Socialization does not have to be in a school setting. I have seen problems with the socializing in schools...If Christian parents rely on schools to teach socialization, there will be problems.
 
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I believe socialization is important, but it is not the most important part of school. School is about learning and gaining the skills necessary for these life experiences. Socialization does not have to be in a school setting. I have seen problems with the socializing in schools...If Christian parents rely on schools to teach socialization, there will be problems.
Socializing is a natural by product in being at school because they are around kids to socialize with. The best way to develope these skills is at a young age. And to love others and to communicate that love is more important than knowledge. For if I gain all knowledge and have not love, it profits me nothing (1 Corinthians 13).
 

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Socializing is a natural by product in being at school because they are around kids to socialize with. The best way to develope these skills is at a young age. And to love others and to communicate that love is more important than knowledge. For if I gain all knowledge and have not love, it profits me nothing (1 Corinthians 13).
I understand what you are saying, but having been in school recently, I can tell you that is not the best way to teach love.....
What do you believe are some ways to communicate love?
Can't you communicate love through actions too?
 
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skylove7

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My church life as a child...four times a week taught me plenty of love and communication skill. School was lots of evil hearts...many picking on mentally challenged children. It was sickening to see!
Our school Superintendent didn't care! We were just another number...that's all I know.