You know, I didn't think about it but I am called a calvinist and do not go to a reformed church. In bible study and even on the pulpit I have heard people bash calvinism or atleast express their disaggrement to it. The odd thing is when a lost person comes into one of the chat rooms here after armenians exhaust themselves trying to make a person choose to believe you could say, they start sounding like calvinists. The part people like to assault of the doctrine is them drawing out of it that some are destined to go to hell, but the focus of the doctrine is that man has no boast in his faith since it is God that draws him and not the man choosing to come. I could say that most anti-calvinists doctrine implies that man is the author and finisher of his salvation. Actually, that is where I find the most fault in their beliefs.
AND THIS IS THE PROBLEM
If they do not agree with ALL FIVE POINTS
they are arbitrarily labelled Arminian
true doctrine is somewhere in between