As I have previously mentioned, the purpose of this thread is NOT to discuss my personal beliefs but rather to discuss the passages that seem to indicate that God is in control of all things, including the minds, thoughts, actions, and behaviors of not only people but animals (power over all of creation). That said,
@Bluesproverb had shown us a passage yesterday that fell underneath my radar. That passage is Proverbs 16:9. Here it is again:
Proverbs 16:9 NLT – “We can make our plans, but
the LORD determines our steps.”
What are we supposed to “make” of this statement? Is the NLT translation the problem? Hardly.
Proverbs 16:9 KJV – “A man’s heart deviseth his way: but
the LORD directeth his steps.”
Even the Blessed Jews translate 16:9 this way (from their Tanakh):
“A man may plot out his course, but
it is the Lord who directs his steps.”
This passage does, however, give us what seems to be an accurate description of what is happening within this concept of “free will,” and it is this concept that I adhere to. In my view, we have a limited set of choices that we are allowed to make, but ultimately, it will be the Lord who has placed a hedge around our lives so that we are corralled into specific activities (including our thoughts). Without question, we know that this is the case if we are under the Curse of the Lord, the Curse that stems back to Adam and Eve, for it is clear that those who exist under this Curse are held captive to do the will of the Devil (unless we continue to disregard the Lord’s Scripture).
2 Timothy 2:26 NKJV – “. . . and that they may come to their senses and escape the snare of the devil,
having been taken captive by him to do his will.”
Until a person is exiled from the captivity of Satan, no one is “free.” But even in this evil captivity of Satan, very few would ever admit that the Devil controls them, for essentially all of us feel that we are/were free to make our own choices. But even Gary Ridgeway himself never admitted that he was held captive to do the will of Satan, for he claimed that he was doing the police a favor by murdering prostitutes . . . and “cleaning up the streets.”
When I was an active, highly functioning alcoholic, I would “choose” nearly every day to stop drinking. Each day after work, I would tell myself, “You are NOT going to stop at the gas station to buy more beer. You are NOT going to turn into that parking lot!” Sure enough, I would watch my hands turn that steering wheel into the parking lot. Ninety seconds later, I’m at the counter making my purchase of cheap, high-octane beer. I couldn’t stop. I could [not] stop. I didn’t stop drinking until I had an ankle devise bolted to my leg. I had the ignition-controlled breathalyzer in my car, but even then, I continued to drink. December 7th, 2011, was the day the ankle device was installed, and it was the last day I drank alcohol. I am so thankful for being forced to stop drinking! I was not in control of myself; instead, I was held captive to do Satan’s will. And as a raging alcoholic, this lifestyle led me into all kinds of rampant sex sin, as alcohol opened up my inhibitions and allowed me to do and say what was necessary to achieve my next sexual conquest.
As I said, I have planned, and planned, and planned my ways, but I was never in control over my life. I have always had this awareness that I was not in control over my life . . . I have never been. My plans have always included being free of addictions; free to do whatever I desired in this life. My plans included being a part of my set of families. But as hard as I would try to be good and show that I was worthy, I was not included in “family” but instead rejected. I have always planned how I would “get along” with my new co-workers at the next job, yet they would also turn against me. I would do and say whatever I had to do or say to try to get people to be “on my side,” but to no avail, my efforts (even buying people things) would not work. My plans would always fail, and this is to the degree of “father against son, brother against brother . . . friend against friend.”
Luke 12:51-53 NLT – “Do you think I have come to bring peace to the earth? No,
I have come to divide people against each other! From now on families will be split apart, three in favor of me, and two against--or two in favor and three against.
‘Father will be divided against son and son against father; mother against daughter and daughter against mother; and mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.”
My parents didn’t sell me into slavery (as the case with Joseph), but worse, they paid another man to take me when I was just a little boy . . . yet my heart was filled with an incredible love for everyone in my family (I was so confused by what was happening to me and my life). Unlike Joseph, who went in exchange for money, I was so detested by my parents and adult family that a family friend accepted me and was paid to take me as though unwanted trash (no family member would step up to save me). I do not write these things seeking a pity party but to demonstrate that I have never been in control of my life. God has been directing my steps . . . I am so fortunate!
The good news? This is the Plan of God in full action. For it is the Lord who Loves the poor, the oppressed, the rejected, and the sad. It is the meek who shall inherit the earth, and God shows us this concept throughout Scripture, such as the Lord choosing Israel NOT because they were the strongest and largest, but because He loved them though they were the smallest and the weakest.
Deuteronomy 7:7-8 NLT - “The LORD did not set his heart on you and choose you because you were more numerous than other nations, for you were the smallest of all nations! Rather, it was simply that the LORD loves you, and he was keeping the oath he had sworn to your ancestors. That is why the LORD rescued you with such a strong hand from your slavery and from the oppressive hand of Pharaoh, king of Egypt.”
This concept is precisely how the Lord shows His Omniscient Power . . . and Glory. For, He chooses and uses the weak things of this world to empower and thus demonstrate [His] Power.
1 Corinthians 1:27 NLT – “Instead, God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful.”
If our lives do not reflect what we see in the Bible (the life of one Loved by God), then we should be concerned. We ought to be worried if we are living carefree, wanton lives. For example, we ought to be worried if we are rude, crude, and overbearing at Christian forums. If our lives are hypocritical and out of control, doing the things that the Devil would have us do, then we ought to be worried.
Lastly, if we possess True “free will,” why do virtually all “Christians” desperately pray to the Lord that He would take over and relieve them of their sinful ways? And since virtually all “Christians” pray this type of prayer, the same prayers I have shown from king David, why would we reject the idea that God might control us even though we ask this of Him? Yet incredibly, we ask for this very thing . . . the Omniscient control of God in our lives. We ask of these things, yet turn right around and destroy others for showing that this concept is most prevalent within the Lord’s Holy Word.
Psalm 141:3 NLT – “
Take control of what I say, O LORD, and guard my lips.”