You know, I am in agreement with the combatability of the two. I do think God predestined certain events, and certain people to create those events from happening. I also agree that men have free will to accept the grace of God.
I think overall, I deeply respect you for your strong opinions and your knowledge of the aforementioned subject. I think that despite our differences in opinions based on the subject, we are saved through the grace of God, and you are a good christian for it. I commend you for that, and I am glad you are here to give your insight on the subject. My thoughts are that despite our differences, we are still brothers in Christ. Not everyone worships the same, and not everyone agrees with exactly the same doctrine in terms of specifics, but the core beliefs are what matter the most. We agree on those, and so I am glad you are part of the body of Christ. You are someone to be respected based on your knowledge, and I will gladly say that I am strongly grateful to have you as my brother in Christ. Very few times have I seen someone with so much knowledge and strong respect for scripture and understanding it, and that makes me hold fast to the fact that you are indeed part of my family. Whether we disagree on free will/predestination, I can calmly and with a full heart say that you are strong with the Lord either way. I will be thankful to meet you one day when we are all with the Lord. Thank you for your teaching, because it has been a revelation to me, even if I disagree on certain aspects. Please don't think that I am trying to win (or prove you wrong) in all of this. It is just a difference of opinion based on our interpretation and belief system in scripture. The Lord makes us all different in psychological terms of how we perceive things, but we both perceive the way, the truth, and the light in the same respects. Thank you for your teaching on the subject. I can say that I understand Calvinists better now than I ever did before. That is a blessing in disguise, if only for the fact that I am very glad to learn more about every denomination. I consider myself non-denominational because I choose to believe in multiple ways of worship based on the individual, but I won't judge anyone for their beliefs if their core beliefs are the same as mine.