This is what Paul Washer said, 'To be like Christ'. I don't want to play with words but there is nothing in the scriptures that says to be like Christ. Maybe Paul Washer meant the following but you will have to decide. The Apostle Paul said, 'for me to live is Christ' (Phil 1:21) and to die is gain. We are in Christ stead (2Cor 5:20), not to be like Him to minister Christ. We are as He is in this present evil world (1Jn 4:17, 3:2). He is our example that we should follow in His steps (1Pt 2:21). That is dealing with suffering in the plan of God the Father and to do those things that please Him (John 8:29). Jesus was full of grace and truth (John 1:17). And of His fulness have we received, grace for grace (John 1:16). Jesus from a child had the grace of God upon Him (Lk 2:40). He came not to condemn but rather to seek and save that which is lost (Lk 19:10) and we are saved by grace through faith (Eph 2:8).
The ministry that almighty God has given us is a ministry and word of reconciliation (2Cor 5:18,19) and that means that God was in Christ reconciling the world unto Himself, NOT IMPUTING THEIR SINS AND TRESPASSES UNTO THEM. This is our first love and if you want to impute sins and trespasses unto people then you are not doing the will of God because God doesn't do it. He convicts and reproves of sin but will not impute sin to anyone. Does Paul Washer believe that? I don't know but he should because that is the truth. I hope he does because that is the will of God and what every believer should be doing in all the world. They should be teaching and preaching reconciliation, Jesus Christ and Him crucified. You know what will reconcile the departing believer, Christ and Him crucified. You know what heal the backslider, Christ and Him crucified. You know what will correct the believer from the error of his way, Christ and Him crucified. You know what will get people out of the flesh and into the Spirit, Christ and Him crucified. You know what will get you and me to go into all the world and preach the glorious gospel, Christ and Him crucified. You want a banner to hold up in your ministry, hold up the one that says, CHRIST AND HIM CRUCIFIED!
John 12:44-50 'Jesus cried and said, He that believeth on me, believeth not on me, but on him that sent me. And he that seeth me seeth him that sent me. I am come a light into the world, that whosoever believeth on me should not abide in darkness. And if any man hear my words, and believe not, I judge him not: for I came not to judge the world, but to save the world. He that rejecteth me, and receiveth not my words, hath one that judgeth him: the word that I have spoken, the same shall judge him in the last day. For I have not spoken of myself; but the Father which sent me, he gave me a commandment, what I should say, and what I should speak. And I know that his commandment is life everlasting: whatsoever I speak therefore, even as the Father said unto me, so I speak'.