"For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.
He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it."
"And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me."
"And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment."
Jesus said anyone who loves their family more than him is not worthy of him. We need to face the fact that we might leave our family but God is peace and in his presence there is no pain or suffering because God matters more than family members and more than the world and more than any creation. In the presents of God there is bliss.