I say stop trying to read my mind and listen. Most women dont think they can be blunt because many men do not respect what we say. When I was young and dating I was very frustrated by the fact that men thought , you said no to this but what if I asked this a different way. Any man that did not listen? well , I said goodby to. You dont have to read a womans mind if you would simply ask and listen, then respect.
God bless, pickles
Well, actually... Most of the time when women say "no", we're really meaning "yes", "no", "maybe", "i don't know" BECAUSE we are so afraid to be blunt. And we're so afraid to be blunt because we want men to like us.. and we're considered bitches when we speak are mind and say "NO" and actually mean it. However, we also expect men to already know what's wrong simply because, well, "they're supposed to". I put that in quotations because that's a fact for someone and it's not for others.. But even for those who don't believe that men are supposed to know what's wrong, in the back of our minds we still think... they're supposed to know, i shouldn't have to tell them.. <--- This is what keeps women from being blunt. And this is why men are so confussed when we say no. and this is why men think that when we say "no" we really mean "yes", "no", "maybe", "I don't know", which is what leads them to keep asking us the same question over again in different ways..
Listen 2 some sound advice from someone who has been stalked...
STEP 1: REMOVE YOUR PROFILE PICTURE FROM ALL WEBSITES YOU ARE POSTING ON! If you're not interested in a cyber relationship, why do men have to see your face. Unfortunately there are a lot of weirdo's, phsyco's, perverts and just men who can't control themselves when they see 'n pretty woman. If it happened once, it sure will happen again...so prevent this from repeating itself. IF U DON'T WANNA SHOW IT, THEN DON'T ADVERTISE
STEP 2: BLOCK HIM! All chat sites post this feature in some way or another. Don't think u can argue with this guy, his brain works one way only...and thats "southwards"...if you know what I mean. He is clearly lost, thus, slapping him with Scripture will mean zero to him. If u think it's a bit harsh to block him, then maybe u like getting his attention, and then this whole posting of dansel in distress is unneccesary
STEP 3: Change your contact details.
STEP 4: Get on with ur life
If it's really a matter of remaining pure 4 ur future husband and 4 Christ, then you should listen to God's voice...it comes down to something called OBEDIENCE.
1. My profile picture on everything I use it the same.. (which is the same as the picture i use for my avatar on here.) I'm interesting in cyber relationships just not cyber dating.. which is what this guy wants (which i assume that's why he wanted nude pictures of me).
2. I would have blocked him sooner but seeing as I've never had to block anyone before. I'd never had this problem (at least.. not over the internet). I wasn't exactlly trying to argue with him, i was simply trying to get him to see my side of this and why I thought it was wrong and why i didn't want to (cause obviously i was gettign nowhere with just a no).
3. and 4. well, I really have no comment on these because I'm not going to change my contact details just because one guy can't control himself (i don't think it's fair to all the other people who need my contact details and who can control themselves).
I just studied naked and I didn't see that. What is important is for you to report this person right now. You don't talk to him anymore. He's not only some wierd evil creep he is breaking the law. You are under age. He has no right to be talking to you like this and you owe him no answers. It's types like him that rape and murder. Please don't let this go on OK. Love
Thank you. I learned just the other day how to report people and how to block them (which I hope I never have to do again).