Question: "Masturbation - is it a sin according to the Bible?"

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blue_ladybug

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Probably gonna get flack for saying this, but I really don't care..

Those of you who masturbate need to stop playing with yourselves, and having sex with yourselves. GOD says it's a sin against your own body, just like having sex with your own gender is also a sin and detrimental..
 

blue_ladybug

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Who are YOU, to tell anyone here to step off? This IS a public forum, and a public thread, and ANYONE can post here if they darn well want to..

I can already tell you're not gonna last too long here..lol

We are beyond your scope, so step off please.
 
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joefizz

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#63
Probably gonna get flack for saying this, but I really don't care..

Those of you who masturbate need to stop playing with yourselves, and having sex with yourselves. GOD says it's a sin against your own body, just like having sex with your own gender is also a sin and detrimental..
I won't give you flack for this,you are absolutely correct,masturbation in whatever form is nothing more than forcing your body to feel aroused,and it's really better to keep from it,because I may as well admit I have found that it becomes a crutch and hurtful problem,because it stimulates a person to where you have to use the bathroom more frequently temporarily and actually can be physically painful,and can even effect sleeping,I had barely any moral upbringing practically so I unfortunately got lead by immoral people in my life to seek pornography and led me down the road of masturbation,and it is a pain,because just like any drug,it haunts and gets you craving foolishness,before I came completely to God,I even went overboard with that stuff,and so now in today's time after so many years of willingly delighting in that junk,I now constantly have to tell myself,"don't think about that stuff,focus on God."
I even now installed a program to block myself from explicit content in the hopes that I can just forget that junk.
Because just one thought sometimes can get me spiralling backwards so hopefully by God's grace I'll no longer even think on this,because I have a future in mind that I really believe in and don't want to lose it because of such explicit habits.
God deserves better than that and so does whom a person seeks a future with.
 
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joefizz

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#66
If you're dreaming about your wife it's probably OK. :)
define,ok...the sheets and clothes have to be washed and you'll probably get yelled at despite your dream of your wife,so probably better to seek a way to avoid this such as,using the bathroom before going to sleep.(so you most likely don't get aroused while asleep water retention plays a part in arousal too)
 
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joefizz

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#68
Ahhhhh, top of the morning to you, BDF! How are we all on this fine day?
Lol you kill me winerose,though I must admit,you're pointing out that this is "bible discussion forum" is a valid point,I haven't seen any bible scriptures recently in this topic,I really can't think of any right now though anyways concerning this.
 
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joefizz

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Lol you kill me winerose,though I must admit,you're pointing out that this is "bible discussion forum" is a valid point,I haven't seen any bible scriptures recently in this topic,I really can't think of any right now though anyways concerning this.
I should probably leave well enough alone... after all I said what I felt I should say though not biblical,maybe my post will help someone turn away from this foolishness.
 

stillness

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"Nothing is evil in itself but to him who estems it, to him it is evil."
To estem: having our afections bound in adiction becomes sin.
I have strugled with adiction much of my life. God tels us, "My grace is sufiscient for you for my strengt is made perfect in weakness."
 

Adstar

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I cannot believe masturbation can happen without the person lusting...

People should not seek to have their sin declared not to be sin and thus resist the Will of God.. The Atonement of the LORD Jesus Christ has all these sins covered for those who believe the Word of God and trust in the Atonement Jesus has served for their forgiveness.

If people declare their sin to be good then they have loved unrighteousness..
 
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pckts

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I cannot believe masturbation can happen without the person lusting...

People should not seek to have their sin declared not to be sin and thus resist the Will of God.. The Atonement of the LORD Jesus Christ has all these sins covered for those who believe the Word of God and trust in the Atonement Jesus has served for their forgiveness.

If people declare their sin to be good then they have loved unrighteousness..
Things I've noticed these characters have in common, is that they convince themselves the guilt they feel when doing it is "socially engineered", rather than their conscience or Spirit telling them it's wrong, and that "They have NEEDS".
 

CherieR

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Self-mastrubation can be harmful to a marriage if one is more interested in self-mastrubation than physical intimacy with his/her spouse. I don't see any problem with mutual mastrubation between a husband and wife.
 
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Hmm, the mods delete a thread about Jesus using the bathroom #2 and allow crap like this a thread about masturbation, weird.. people make me wonder what in world is going on in their heads.
 
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#75
When you say "astral projection", I think of the movie The Men Who Stare At Goats and governments attempting to find underground bunkers by having "psychics" navigate the word by writing down phrases in sealed envelopes.

I will talk about "lucid dreaming" whenever I feel like in front of whoever I want because I've been having dreams like this since I was 5 and know they are true, so whoever these people who don't believe in them are, they are simply wrong and haven't experienced one themselves.

I don't say any chants, commit a blood sacrifice, or pray to demons for a dream I'm consciously aware of, I go to sleep like I do any other night and sometimes I'm aware of the transition into a dream, or sometimes I say "hey, this isn't right, oh I'm dreaming!" and then it picks up from there.

There is nothing evil or occult about recognizing the dream isn't reality and being aware of it, anyone who takes issue with this are probably those people who dream in black and white or don't even remember them to begin with. I'd rather upset these people than silence myself about the innocent truth.

I lucid dream too, often.

It's pretty normal. It just means you're aware of what you're doing in a dream (and like you said, being aware that it is a dream). The vast majority of the time, being in a dream state does not prevent me from knowing right from wrong and choosing between the two.
 
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pckts

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I lucid dream too, often.

It's pretty normal. It just means you're aware of what you're doing in a dream (and like you said, being aware that it is a dream). The vast majority of the time, being in a dream state does not prevent me from knowing right from wrong and choosing between the two.
Do you have sleep paralysis ever? Happened a lot more when I was more stressed out with life, but occasionally it happens still.
 
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Do you have sleep paralysis ever? Happened a lot more when I was more stressed out with life, but occasionally it happens still.
Rarely. I just chill out when it happens though. It hasn't been scary to me for a long time now.
 
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pckts

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Rarely. I just chill out when it happens though. It hasn't been scary to me for a long time now.
Sometimes it was really painful to me which freaked me out, but I do the same staying calm is the best way for it to stop. It's weird though when someone in the real world notices something is wrong and might be saying to you "are you OK?", and you can hear them in the dream and you are trying to tell them NO!
 

Adstar

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Things I've noticed these characters have in common, is that they convince themselves the guilt they feel when doing it is "socially engineered", rather than their conscience or Spirit telling them it's wrong, and that "They have NEEDS".
Yes i think there is an element of that kind of thinking going on..

I also think some have a works salvation based mentality where they think they must by self discipline stop sinning.. They find that they cannot stop sinning a certain sin and so when they hear some doctrine / preaching that puts forward that their sin is not actually sinning they desperately reach out for it and adopt that false doctrine because if their sin is no longer sin then they can cling onto the delusion that they can once again achieve salvation by Works..
 

shrume

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Do you really want to gamble on that in not being left behind at the pre trib rapture?
No Christian will be left behind at the rapture. Every Christian is a member of the body of Christ, and Jesus will gather every Christian to himself when he comes to gather his church.

edit: Hmpf. It looks like the system just hiccuped, and the last several posts in this thread are now missing.