What is love?

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What is love?


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The greatest examples of true love are found in the Bible. So, what is love?
 
Feb 3, 2010
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service. obedience, worship, adoration, sanctification, justification, Grace, patience, kindness, prayer, sacrifice, meeting needs, ministering, giving, selflessness. empathy, perspective-taking, listening, caring, raising, allowing others to stand on their own, discipline, encouraging.
 
Jan 22, 2010
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I hate that word. "Love". Yet I have to use it. That's the sad thing about the English language. It's just so limited. Such a beautiful concept as love, and yet we are I believe the ONLY language that has only ONE word to define it. How careless. How cheap.

The Greeks have a different word for all the different kinds of love they knew of.
 
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sunshine_debbie

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If That Isn't Love

He left the splendor of heaven
Knowing His destiny
Was the lonely hill of Golgotha
There to lay down His life for me

And if that isn't love
Then the ocean is dry
There's no stars in the sky
And the little sparrows can't fly
Yeah if that isn't love
Then heaven's a myth
There's no feeling like this
If that isn't love

Even in death He remembered
The thief hanging by His side
Then he spoke of love and compassion
And He took him to paradise

And if that isn't love
Then the ocean is dry
There's no stars in the sky
And the little sparrows can't fly
Yeah if that isn't love
Then heaven's a myth
There's no feeling like this
If that isn't love It's got to be love


When I was a little kid, I really liked this song, because I lived in a very dysfunctional family and I was always searching for love, even when I got older, always looking in all the wrong places. But the answer has always been Jesus.

Debbie
 
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Mal316

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1) Baby don't hurt me, no more.

2) but a second-hand emotion?

3) a battlefield

Kudos if you get all the references. :) :D
 
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Not_The_Righteous

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1) Baby don't hurt me, no more.

2) but a second-hand emotion?

3) a battlefield

Kudos if you get all the references. :) :D
1) haddaway
2)Amy Grant
3) Pat benetar

What do I win :)

I'll throw something else out there.
Love is desiring and working for someone's highest, best "good," even sometimes despite themselves.
 
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"what is love baby dont hurt me, dont hurt me, no more"
 

VW

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Jesus said that greater love has no one than to lay down his life for a friend. Love is caring about someone more than you care about yourself. Self sacrificing is a good synonym for love. We love what we cherish. We love what we hold in our hearts as the one thing we cannot do without. God is love.
 
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The greatest examples of true love are found in the Bible. So, what is love?
I think love is two things—how you feel towards people and how you treat people. It would seem to me the important love is how you treat people. Am I wrong?
 
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stillearning

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The greatest examples of true love are found in the Bible. So, what is love?
I believe also the question could be asked Who is love?
 

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I think love is two things—how you feel towards people and how you treat people. It would seem to me the important love is how you treat people. Am I wrong?
Not at all, you either love people, or you hate them, because to have no feeling at all is hate. God loves us, more than we can imagine.
 
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Not at all, you either love people, or you hate them, because to have no feeling at all is hate. God loves us, more than we can imagine.
Huh? Having no feeling at all is called apathy. Hatred is something different. Hatred takes effort.
 

VW

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Huh? Having no feeling at all is called apathy. Hatred is something different. Hatred takes effort.
Apathy is the worst kind of hatred. This is the general feeling that most serial killers have towards their victims.
 
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I hate that word. "Love". Yet I have to use it. That's the sad thing about the English language. It's just so limited. Such a beautiful concept as love, and yet we are I believe the ONLY language that has only ONE word to define it. How careless. How cheap.

The Greeks have a different word for all the different kinds of love they knew of.
The following comes to mind:

"Baby, do you love me?"
"Yes, of course, I love you."
"Why do you love me?"
"Well, you're funny, beautiful, cute, smart..."
*snore*

I think love is two things—how you feel towards people and how you treat people. It would seem to me the important love is how you treat people. Am I wrong?
I have no idea. I know what love would look like but I don't know if I'm able to define it. For me, love is 100% selfless. So if we take the marriage example, if a husband loves his wife, he would do whatever is in her best interest and makes her happy and expect zero reciprocation from her. That would be love... ideally. But life for us humans is not ideal. So using the marriage example, if both the wife loves her husband and the husband loves his wife, then they would both be out trying to make each other happy all the time and giving up their "rights" to be right, to be this, and that, etc. Then there wouldn't be any arguments and no divorces and the lawyers will go broke! :D lol ok, I'm day-dreaming now...
 

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The following comes to mind:

"Baby, do you love me?"
"Yes, of course, I love you."
"Why do you love me?"
"Well, you're funny, beautiful, cute, smart..."
*snore*



I have no idea. I know what love would look like but I don't know if I'm able to define it. For me, love is 100% selfless. So if we take the marriage example, if a husband loves his wife, he would do whatever is in her best interest and makes her happy and expect zero reciprocation from her. That would be love... ideally. But life for us humans is not ideal. So using the marriage example, if both the wife loves her husband and the husband loves his wife, then they would both be out trying to make each other happy all the time and giving up their "rights" to be right, to be this, and that, etc. Then there wouldn't be any arguments and no divorces and the lawyers will go broke! :D lol ok, I'm day-dreaming now...
I have heard it said that their is love as between friends, (more on this later,) and love as a mother has for her child, and love as God is love. (And then there is lust, which is not love at all, but a perversion of love, a need that has nothing to do with love.) The love we are commanded to have towards each other is the love that Jesus has for us, which made Him willingly go to the cross to save us from our destruction, even when we did not love Him or even care for Him, but were rather His enemies. And this love brings true friendship, for it is a bond that endures all things. I have a friendship like that, over 30 years old, and it can only be called love.
 
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greatkraw

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love is not a feeling

people divorce because the feeling does not last
 
Jan 22, 2010
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I have heard it said that their is love as between friends, (more on this later,) and love as a mother has for her child, and love as God is love. (And then there is lust, which is not love at all, but a perversion of love, a need that has nothing to do with love.) The love we are commanded to have towards each other is the love that Jesus has for us, which made Him willingly go to the cross to save us from our destruction, even when we did not love Him or even care for Him, but were rather His enemies. And this love brings true friendship, for it is a bond that endures all things. I have a friendship like that, over 30 years old, and it can only be called love.
That's just the point - in English, you have to keep reusing "love". There are all KINDS of different love, yet we only have one word for it. Most languages have a different word for each different type of love. Like the Greeks had phileo (brotherly), agape (unconditional), eros? (erotic), uhm...they have one for hospitality, which is a kind of love defined by I believe Aristotle.
 
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giantone

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Agape - God's unconditional love
Philleo- Brotherly love
Erros- Sexual or intimate love
storegay- family love related by blood

I'm sure there not all spelled right but these are the four names of love and there general meanings APES
 

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That's just the point - in English, you have to keep reusing "love". There are all KINDS of different love, yet we only have one word for it. Most languages have a different word for each different type of love. Like the Greeks had phileo (brotherly), agape (unconditional), eros? (erotic), uhm...they have one for hospitality, which is a kind of love defined by I believe Aristotle.
Well, I don't speak Greek, nor Hebrew, nor any other language, except for tongues, but I don't know what I am saying then. I have no aptitude for languages at all. When tested for the ability to learn a second language, I made one of the lowest scores ever. But I know what love is in Christ Jesus, and that God is love. It is enough for me.