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There are exceptions to the rule if those movements were of God.
But citing some pentecostal and holiness movements aren't exactly proof of God's general acceptance of female leadership.

If we get our doctrine from the bible alone, it's hard to argue against Paul's reasoning for not allowing women to teach. Paul no where gives his reason as being one of cultural reasons, or because females were second class citizens in that society, or that it was just for some. He appeals directly to the fact that Adam was created before Eve. And that's why women should not hold authority over the man. But we don't have to accept Paul's teachings of course if we don't want to.

The first ordination and full clergy rights for a woman was given in 1956. That's still fairly recent. As far as I remember it was the 80's that saw the doors open on female priests in the anglican community.
Right. Adam created before Eve.

Is there any wonder why I feel so upset- that is a terrible reason. It's almost not a reason because it's such a nonsense reason. I can't make sense of what creation order has to do with superiority. God made animals before man, and you don't see them with the authority to lord over us. There has to be some better reason then "just because".

I'm not satisfied with "just because". Can you blame me?
 
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There are exceptions to the rule if those movements were of God.
But citing some pentecostal and holiness movements aren't exactly proof of God's general acceptance of female leadership.

If we get our doctrine from the bible alone, it's hard to argue against Paul's reasoning for not allowing women to teach. Paul no where gives his reason as being one of cultural reasons, or because females were second class citizens in that society, or that it was just for some. He appeals directly to the fact that Adam was created before Eve. And that's why women should not hold authority over the man. But we don't have to accept Paul's teachings of course if we don't want to.

The first ordination and full clergy rights for a woman was given in 1956. That's still fairly recent. As far as I remember it was the 80's that saw the doors open on female priests in the anglican community.
I never cited these denominations as proof of anything other than some people's willingness to share "facts" to support their beliefs which are clearly untrue.

If you want to argue from the Bible alone, which I agree is the way to go, then look at my first post- the final paragraphs where I summarize how ALL of the relevant passages can be fairly understood without explaining away ANY.
 
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Right. Adam created before Eve.

Is there any wonder why I feel so upset- that is a terrible reason. It's almost not a reason because it's such a nonsense reason. I can't make sense of what creation order has to do with superiority. God made animals before man, and you don't see them with the authority to lord over us. There has to be some better reason then "just because".

I'm not satisfied with "just because". Can you blame me?
run into a bear in the wild and I assure you, he (or she) will Lord it over you :)
 
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run into a bear in the wild and I assure you, he (or she) will Lord it over you :)
I heard they have sensitive noses, I would try to swat it with a stick if I had the courage. Or I could, you know, pass out in fear.
 
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I never cited these denominations as proof of anything other than some people's willingness to share "facts" to support their beliefs which are clearly untrue.

If you want to argue from the Bible alone, which I agree is the way to go, then look at my first post- the final paragraphs where I summarize how ALL of the relevant passages can be fairly understood without explaining away ANY.

Concerning your post, there's a few things I should mention. You appeal to the common arguments of women being inferior (culture), etc etc but no where in your post do you mention the fact that Paul cites none of these as reasons for preventing women teach in churches. The only reason he offers is :

1Ti 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
1Ti 2:14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.


Which makes me wonder whether you truly are arguing from the "bible alone". And not certain theories which all too easily explain away the reasoning behind Paul's teachings on this topic (because we do not like these teachings) ...when the answer is right there in front of our noses 1 Tim 2:13-14. Furthermore you'd be hard pressed to find many or most bible scholars and theologicans pre 1800's who argue the case for fully ordained females in the ministry.


If we look at a few facts of the creation account of Genesis. Man was made ruler over the lower orders of creation (nature, animals etc), and then woman was made from a rib taken from his side, and given to him not as one to Lord over him, but as a companion.

In addition, we have coupled with the curse of pain in childbirth, God's proclamation that the husband would rule over the wife, rule as in, harshly. It would not be pleasant.


And there we have a perfectly biblical and sound justification for why women must not hold authority over men in the church as a general rule. That is the natural order of things as revealed in Genesis account of creation. I might also suggest that women in general would feel more comfortable by staying in their proper place of authority, as I know plenty of women who disagree with females in leadership positions in the church.

For as Paul said at the end of chapter 14:
1Co 14:40 Let all things be done decently and in order.

This order is already revealed to us in the creation account of Genesis.
As far as I know, this order was not turned upside down or changed with the coming of the new testament.

So ladies, there are two points to note about the order of creation and the curse which came from the fall:
1) Eve was not created to lord over Adam but to be his companion.
2) The curse was that the husband would rule over the wife. That being not very pleasant. We see this has panned out over history in that women have been one of the most ill-treated citizens of our society. It's not pleasant but as a curse proclaimed by God on the female creation, it's not meant to be.
 
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A question we might ask is, has these curses been revoked since the new testament?

Apparently not. We see Paul appealing to Genesis in his letters (new testament) and as far as I know, women still experienc epain in childbirth.

So you can't use a "that's old testament" argument - this order and curses are still in existance today.
 

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As I had considered and prayed about this , I came to realize that it has never been about being less then men, but more about being told no as a woman to some of the things men do.
I saw no scripture saying women are less.
Just we as women restricted in some ways.
But as women we have many things that men do not.
I suggest instead of looking to God and saying unfair, look to God Our Father in prayer and ask him to show you his great work in this.
Like I said it was a sorce of dispair for me. Giving it to God Our Father, and trusting in him on this, can be a blessing.
God bless, pickles
 
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That's an excellent post pickles. It is true that women can serve God in ministry in their home. Raising children is a ministry. Being a devoted wife to a husband is a ministry. Being a single female devoted to God's work is a ministry. To serve God one does not have to be a great preacher in a church.
Our society has been influenced by a few movements where women look at bull dozer driver jobs for example and want to do it. We also have men desiring to stay at home and knit and cook. I don't think these people are living or doing how God created them to be. I'm also a firm believer that even men should not preach if God has not called them to do that. We know that anyone whether male or female seeking God's will for their life will not always get what they want or what they think they could be good at.
 

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That's an excellent post pickles. It is true that women can serve God in ministry in their home. Raising children is a ministry. Being a devoted wife to a husband is a ministry. Being a single female devoted to God's work is a ministry. To serve God one does not have to be a great preacher in a church.
Our society has been influenced by a few movements where women look at bull dozer driver jobs for example and want to do it. We also have men desiring to stay at home and knit and cook. I don't think these people are living or doing how God created them to be. I'm also a firm believer that even men should not preach if God has not called them to do that. We know that anyone whether male or female seeking God's will for their life will not always get what they want or what they think they could be good at.
Hi Mahogony, Dont get to carried away here. If a woman can run a bulldozer she should.:D
But that is of the world, what I refur to is the word in Jesus. That is what we are to be obedient to.
If a woman wants and can and her hubby is good with it, let her run the bull dozer.
But what is important is living in accord to the word of God on this.
I still wonder about revelations, it seems much is set aside except for a few things.
But still all are to live in Jesus .
God bless, pickles
 
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But don't you know females are the weaker sex? Or as my NZ friend would say, the weaker sux.

I think inside every woman is a God-given desire to stay at home and cook and clean.

Oh no lol I'm just looking for a fight. LOL.

Bible women were pretty tough and did manual labour. I'll give you that.
 
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But don't you know females are the weaker sex? Or as my NZ friend would say, the weaker sux.

I think inside every woman is a God-given desire to stay and home and cook and clean.

Oh no lol I'm just looking for a fight. LOL.
No worries, Ive heard alot of it for years. I was the first femail gas attendent where I grew up.
Before my health went I could leg press 475 lbs, I was weaker on the bench press, only 125.
Oh well , thats life.
I never tried to be a man, just the best woman I could be.
Smiles and God bless, pickles
 
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"I never tried to be a man, just the best woman I could be." ~ Pickles.

That's an awesome quote.
 

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TY
God bless, pickles
 

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I just want to add that whatever status women are afforded in Christianity, overall, women seem to be comfortable with it.

You would think that if women generally felt they were being treated unfairly, women's attendance in church would be far lower than men's. However, this is not the case. Women outnumber men in all denominations across all western countries from what I can see, despite men outnumbering women in leadership positions by a long way, with the gender gap being most apparent in the catholic church.

This may be representative of a problem with enticing men to attend church, which some men often feel is a female-dominated girly environment. However, I think if women had a problem with their status the attendance figures would be different. Interestingly, Judaism and Islam are the opposite, with men outnumbering women.
 
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Matthew

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I am female. I am constantly feeling like men find me inferior simply because I'm female
This is one of many things that I didn't understand when I was younger, and it is something I have seen abused as I've gotten older...sadly some 'Christian' men choose to use it as a cloak for male chauvinism and I always found that to be a major turn off, until I learned that's not the way it's meant to be but rather a corrupted view to allow abusive behaviour.

It may sound silly but the only way I have been able to understand is that someone has to stay behind and someone has to go ahead....God chose who stays and who goes and I am trying to remember not to argue with that...but some days it's really tough.

What I mean is men have been designated to lead...but are only as good as their support and that's where women come in and what they do is crucial, both in the church and in the home.

I see it as no-one is more imporant because without both men and women supporting eachother nothing is going to stand the test of life, it confused me for a long time because I felt I knew where my strengths were and I knew what I could do for the best, part of me growing was accepting that even when I felt conflicted and like it didn't make sense it was still best to do it as I was being told.

I know it's different for women but I think men can relate to the same basic frustration because we are all given a role and not all of us are going to feel immediately comfortable with it......that's as much as I understand right now.
 
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carpetmanswife

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"I never tried to be a man, just the best woman I could be." ~ Pickles.

That's an awesome quote.
good otherwise we'd have to start a new thread on that one
*hugs to pickles* agreed excellent quote :)
 
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Concerning your post, there's a few things I should mention. You appeal to the common arguments of women being inferior (culture), etc etc but no where in your post do you mention the fact that Paul cites none of these as reasons for preventing women teach in churches. The only reason he offers is :

1Ti 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
1Ti 2:14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.


Which makes me wonder whether you truly are arguing from the "bible alone". And not certain theories which all too easily explain away the reasoning behind Paul's teachings on this topic (because we do not like these teachings) ...when the answer is right there in front of our noses 1 Tim 2:13-14. Furthermore you'd be hard pressed to find many or most bible scholars and theologicans pre 1800's who argue the case for fully ordained females in the ministry.


If we look at a few facts of the creation account of Genesis. Man was made ruler over the lower orders of creation (nature, animals etc), and then woman was made from a rib taken from his side, and given to him not as one to Lord over him, but as a companion.

In addition, we have coupled with the curse of pain in childbirth, God's proclamation that the husband would rule over the wife, rule as in, harshly. It would not be pleasant.


And there we have a perfectly biblical and sound justification for why women must not hold authority over men in the church as a general rule. That is the natural order of things as revealed in Genesis account of creation. I might also suggest that women in general would feel more comfortable by staying in their proper place of authority, as I know plenty of women who disagree with females in leadership positions in the church.

For as Paul said at the end of chapter 14:
1Co 14:40 Let all things be done decently and in order.

This order is already revealed to us in the creation account of Genesis.
As far as I know, this order was not turned upside down or changed with the coming of the new testament.

So ladies, there are two points to note about the order of creation and the curse which came from the fall:
1) Eve was not created to lord over Adam but to be his companion.
2) The curse was that the husband would rule over the wife. That being not very pleasant. We see this has panned out over history in that women have been one of the most ill-treated citizens of our society. It's not pleasant but as a curse proclaimed by God on the female creation, it's not meant to be.
Do you actually READ what I write? I mean, really? Several times I've had to repeat myself because you say I said this or that when I didn't, or didn't say this or that when I did.
You said "You appeal to the common arguments of women being inferior (culture), etc etc but no where in your post do you mention the fact that Paul cites none of these as reasons for preventing women teach in churches."
I do NOT appeal to those arguments. Every time I have mentioned them it has been to say whether a woman is stronger or weaker or smarter or dumber or so forth has NOTHING to do with whether she can lead or must submit.

As for the "curses" that you see, I see in Genesis that God pointedly CURSED the serpent and CURSED the ground, but God did NOT curse the man or the woman. Read it again carefully. God announced or explained the consequences of their separation from Him, but never, NEVER cursed them.

By the way, your appeal to history is an argument that does not come from scripture. Perhaps you could try to erase that.
 
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Do you actually READ what I write? I mean, really? Several times I've had to repeat myself because you say I said this or that when I didn't, or didn't say this or that when I did.
You said "You appeal to the common arguments of women being inferior (culture), etc etc but no where in your post do you mention the fact that Paul cites none of these as reasons for preventing women teach in churches."
I do NOT appeal to those arguments. Every time I have mentioned them it has been to say whether a woman is stronger or weaker or smarter or dumber or so forth has NOTHING to do with whether she can lead or must submit.

Ok I'll take a closer look at what you said in the following (my emphasis in bold)

1 Cor 14:34-35 Two comments on this- first, most scholars agree that this verse was probably added by later editors of the text, because in various manuscripts it is located in several places (here or at the end of the chapter being most common). These two verses in this place seem to break up an otherwise coherent thought bridging vv 33 and 36. Secondly, scholars generally agree that the presence of temples in Corinth in which women played a prominent role by giving "prophetic utterances" may have lead to similar practices finding there way into the local churches as pagans converted to Christ. It is highly possible at least that these verses are meant to address a very specific and very local issue, which would have been highly disruptive.
it's possible but we know it's not since Paul's reasoning (Eve before Adam in the creation account of Genesis) which goes beyond and outside of any "specific and local issues" and steps over any boundaries of cultural reasons.


1 Timothy 2:12-3:12 In 1 Tim 1:3 Paul reveals that Timothy is located in Ephesus, which is the destination of this letter accordingly. As we know from Acts 19, Ephesus is the location of the pagan temple of Artemis. Artemis was the pagan godess of childbirth, virginity and fertility. This should shed some light on 2:15. As in Corinth, women played a prominent role in the local pagan worship. This may explain why women were excluded from leadership in the local Christian worship.
And there highlighted in green is one of your appeals to a common argument that is not based upon plain interpretation of scripture but the pagan culture of the time. We know from Paul citing Genesis in 1 Timothy, that pagan culture was not his reasoning behind excluding women from leadership.


And the biggie: Genesis 2:4-3:24 The main thing I have to say about this one is that the woman's desire for her husband and his rule over her is a result of the fall, not a condition before it. We do not try to emulate other post-fall conditions in Christianity, why seek to maintain this one?
That's a good observation that Adam and Eve probably had greater equality before the fall, but Paul does not appeal to this curse but to the simple fact that Eve was not created as Adam's ruler or Lord but as his companion and that being created second to him. That's the original order of creation. Adam held authority over Eve as his husband from the very first moment she was created. The curse that the husband shall "rule over her" meant in a more strict way, which would be less pleasant.


Paul and other biblical writers had one overarching purpose: to spread the good news of Jesus Christ and to make disciples of all converts. Inevitably, this goal came up against many obstacles, whether lack of faith, liguistic or cultural obstacles, or others. In the case of men and women, the prevailing cultural norms could have been a major obstacle to the spread of the gospel. You see, at the foot of the cross all are the same before God- hopeless, lost, enmity-bearing people whom God dearly loves and wants to reconcile to Himself. Before God we are all equal. Paul states this in Galatians 3:28. Within the prevailing culture(s) of the first century Roman empire, however, such equality would have been a stumbling block to many converts. Especially Jews (Gentiles our equals!? Meh!) and slaveholders (my slave is my equal!? MEH!). This also included women and wives. Well, these kinds of equality came about as a result of the spread of the gospel, but they were also hard for many to accept. Many, doubtless, could not accept these truths and thus could not accept the Lordship of Christ. So what did Paul and others do? They told slaves to continue to be good workers, told Gentiles to hold Jews in high regard, and told wives to continue to submit to their husbands. This was not to be the permanent solution, only a concession to the cultural norms of the day SO THAT THE GOSPEL COULD INCREASE AMONG THE PEOPLE. After the gospel comes in, it is time for people to change in light of the work that Christ has done. Sometimes this came more slowly than others. Nevertheless, it is better for slaves to work, Gentiles to respect, and wives to submit (and meat eaters to abstain) on behalf of the weaker brother so that the gospel would prevail. It was a service from those who society viewd as weaker to those whom God knew were weaker.
No where in your post did you specifically mention the fact that Paul cites Genesis and the original creation order for his teachings of why women could or could not do certain things. Obviously this was the main reason throughout old and new testaments for why women could or could not do certain things. That is a very important thing you failed to mention if you want to get your doctrine from "bible alone". Instead you seem to appeal to modern day scholars and their views on the culture and society at the times.

It is good to look at the cultural issues but we have to also realise that none of these issues were as important as you make them out to be. Cultural reasons can make the gospel harder to receive in very isolated and tribal societies, but the fact that where Paul lived and much of the Roman empire was multi-cultural, shows that this was unlikely to be an issue for the new testament church. The only time I recall when Paul even talks about culture, is when he defends his rights as an apostle by boasting about his Jewish ancestry.


Paul nowhere cites cultural reasons or anything else like this as a reason for the gospel to be prevented or allowed. I would go so far as to suggest that the very reason why the apostles and early church came against persecution and violence was because they went against cultural and societal norms.

For something which you said was not to be a permanent solution but a concession to cultural norms, you can no where provide a) an actual bible verse showing this clearly, or b) where Paul said it - but we only find an appeal to the creation account of Genesis by Paul.


As for the "curses" that you see, I see in Genesis that God pointedly CURSED the serpent and CURSED the ground, but God did NOT curse the man or the woman. Read it again carefully. God announced or explained the consequences of their separation from Him, but never, NEVER cursed them.
I think you're being a bit picky over word useage. Perhaps punishment is a better word, consequence? In any case, I don't think anyone would argue that these consequences were a blessing. Therefore I think the word curse is entirely appropriate.


By the way, your appeal to history is an argument that does not come from scripture. Perhaps you could try to erase that.
if you appeal to scripture you ARE appealing to history since scripture is a historical record lol. My point was for someone who is claiming to get their doctrine from the bible alone you missed a very important piece of evidence which was Paul's appeal to the creation account of genesis , preferring instead to appeal to cultural reasonings and how that might have prevented or allowed the gospel to be preached.
 
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so we just let people think what they want about God and His whys and His word, and let the blind lead the blind that they both fall into destruction, and this is fine with a God loving person, who is suppose to love GOD and one another, this lady that you defend boldy states that if God wants man as He has said from scripture, to be rule over the woman and she boldy claimed "if this is right then she don't won't to be right and she is serious about it " and she is right in your eyes and i am wrong. so your encourage her to go against the word of God and judge me for caring about what she is doing to herself and God. now I know the true meaning of in the last days right will be wrong and wrong will be right. wow unbelievable !!!!!!!
and for your information I am not your pastor or this ladies. and I am to put God first over you and this lady. I am a follower of Christ and this comes first before any pastor's duties, if this hurts your feelings then take it up with God. I have never said that any in here are on their way to hell, I have never judged anyone of never being a christian, although I have questioned a few. but you all that tell me I don't have the love of God behind every post, where I had tried to show people of their errs. or real quick to judge me. But when someone says that they don't care what God says they are going to do it their way, don't look for no compassion on my part as far as their beliefs, this is a dangerous statement for anyone to say. but go ahead encourage her with all the misguided love you can. and then get on here and tell me I have no fruits of the spirit

Thaddaeus you can be correcting and loving at the same time. You dont always need to smack someone up the head to get through to others, and believe it or not people aren't always so stubbern that they want to keep sinning despite what you (or God)says about the matter. I have been reading your responses here for a while and although you may have a correct opinion, I have seen sarcasm and belittling go hand-in-hand with them which I do not agree with.

These are people skills 101, no will respect someone who obviously doesn't respect them or tries to make them feel small. That doesn't mean accept their sin or not call it out-but there is a right and wrong way to do these things. Jesus was the role model for compassion and He also corrected others and didn't accept sin. Try extending some of that attitude. I'm only telling you this as a sister in Christ.
 
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Once again ~ Female Christian Sistas are Superior! :p