I'd like to ask one more question. In the Chinese church, some people believe that the marriage of single christians should be completely under the guidance of god and they should not take the initiative to seek marriage. In this way, they will surpass god and should only wait for god to prepare a partner. Is that right? I'm a single mother. I've been single for 18 years. I have believed in god for 16 years, but I have never met a suitable Christian to marry because there are not many single brothers in the church.