Confused about the “relationship” I’m in

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ManiaStar

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I’m unsure what to think anymore. I feel like the guy I’m with, I feel we are together, but, I keep questioning it because even though we do everything a regular couple does, there’s no words to it. Sometimes I feel we are together but sometimes I don’t. I’m getting mixed feelings from him yet I know he loves me. I’ve told a few people how I feel and 2 told me not to speak to him again about if we’re together but , a couple other people told me I should speak to him

But, let me clarify something. And this something I’m extremely confused about too. For the past few years, god has told me several things about this guy and myself and every time so far, when god has spoken or gave me peace about something, it has happened. 2 weeks ago, I was home but inwardly was questioning and doubting God and I wasn’t even praying, just thinking and out of nowhere, God lifted me up giving me the most amazing peace and a little after that, I heard from that guy. A few days after that, something else and again God gave me deep peace which lasted a few hours and again everything worked out.

Why would God continually give me peace and continually show up and have things work out with this guy if God didn’t have something bigger in store for us?? I can’t see the future but when I begin to doubt, God often reminds me to continue to wait and be patient. But I’m frustrated and I don’t know what to do.
 

blue_ladybug

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What do you mean by "there's no words to it"? God wouldn't give you temporary peace time and again. He would give you PERMANENT peace about this guy...
 
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dalconn

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[h=1]1 Corinthians 14:33

for God is not a God of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints.[/h]
 

ManiaStar

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What do you mean by "there's no words to it"? God wouldn't give you temporary peace time and again. He would give you PERMANENT peace about this guy...[/QUOTE

But, he always gives me peace about this situation w/ him even when I don't ask for it and he has audibly told me several things about him and me in the past. When I begin to question and doubt what God has said and I question where things are going w/ him, God usually follows up w/ giving me peace and I know this peace is from God.

I've felt the peace from the Devil and spotted it right away the one time. It definitely was peace but something didn't feel rigth w/ it. All the other times I get the peace, I know it's from God. Satan just throws in doubts and questions.
 

blue_ladybug

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Well then, I guess the only thing to do is just hang in there and give it time...