We often hear single Christians say I'm waiting on the spouse God is preparing for me. What does this imply? A prearranged marriage by Christian elders? A spouse that seems to supernaturally fall into your life? Does this eliminate dating as in God will send that individual within His timing?
I personally believe it is a mix of God's sovereignty, free will of the human, and relationship between God and human.
Basically, date with God's guidance.
They say there is someone out there for everyone this would imply that there is a spuse out there already chosen to be with you it's just a matter of finding them. I think God being all knowing and known for his plans for our good does have a spouse chosen for us if we are to have one and sometimes he guides us to them other times we wait on the Lord
I wish I could know love again to feel warm inside thinking of them to imagine sitting together watching movies laughing and crying together to imagine her face when I am feeling down and my heart skips a beat however personally I don't think I will find her and I have learned to be content with it. Where I live in this facility I am in almost every women here has asked me out several times one admitted she had a crush on me but I turned down every offer because I felt nolove for them and if I am to be with someone it has to be the real thing not simply to not be alone.
I am e tender soul and women seem to find that attractive but no one in my life really knows me they don't know my heart just my personality so since I found love once by waiting that is what I do, if there is someone out there that I can lavish with my love and affection he will bring her to me because far to many times I have seen people seek them out only to find it doesn't last.
But I won't lie to find a women who clicks with my personality who I can daydream about and feel warm who when I actually do marry her I am like a seahorse they are my mate for life even if they should die. Seahorses have us humans beat on that matter when they find a mate they are for life even if the other mate dies they will never be with any other sea horse