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Just so you know, I'm not married.
But here's the situation that brought this question..
My dad is not a good gift-buyer; not much thought put into it. For the past 2 years my dad has gotten my mom the same box of NASTY chocolates on every holiday. He used to get the good stuff - Witmans. But now it's those yucky Russel Stover truffles. And this past time I asked my mom, "Why don't you tell him you don't like them?" She says it's just easier to exchange them. He'll flip out if she told him as if she means he can't do anything right or his attempt isn't good enough. My sister says she made this mistake and her husband won't get her things in that category anymore.
I'm thinking they're just chocolates, but she may have something here.
Do men normally overreact to things about gifts? Even if they didn't put much effort into the gift?
I would understand if he spent a lot of time, creativity, or effort in the gift. That would be romantic. A woman would have to love the gift just because of that.
But this seems a little odd to me.
But here's the situation that brought this question..
My dad is not a good gift-buyer; not much thought put into it. For the past 2 years my dad has gotten my mom the same box of NASTY chocolates on every holiday. He used to get the good stuff - Witmans. But now it's those yucky Russel Stover truffles. And this past time I asked my mom, "Why don't you tell him you don't like them?" She says it's just easier to exchange them. He'll flip out if she told him as if she means he can't do anything right or his attempt isn't good enough. My sister says she made this mistake and her husband won't get her things in that category anymore.
I'm thinking they're just chocolates, but she may have something here.
Do men normally overreact to things about gifts? Even if they didn't put much effort into the gift?
I would understand if he spent a lot of time, creativity, or effort in the gift. That would be romantic. A woman would have to love the gift just because of that.
But this seems a little odd to me.