I wasn't going to post here because I'm not one for typing much but I just need some encouragement. My wife and I have been together for 6 years this weekend. We only recently got married in March of this year. Our lives have not been full of the Lord although we are both believers. Since we have been together, we have not had many friends and mostly kept to ourselves. We lost our own identities and were in a rut. She told me 2 weeks ago that she wanted a separation because I have not been attending to her needs. We lost respect and trust in each others word and reached a point where we just argued about everything. She was trying to tell me what she needed but I perceived it as complaining about things since I didn't feel the same way about them as she did. I can admit that this is mostly my fault because I was selfish and didn't show her the love she deserved to be shown. I love my wife dearly and desperately want her back. She moved in with her parents last week and said she needed time to find herself. She says she is hopeful that we can work things out and still tells me she loves me but I have broken her heart and I'm scared that I've lost her forever :'( I want to have hope but she already seems to be having fun and I'm worried she'll get caught up in that and I'll just fall to the wayside.