I am currently struggling with a major life decision. Do I keep trying to save a marriage my husband doesn’t want to be in or do I let go and get divorced. We have been married for 10 years now. He says we have grown into different people and I no longer make him happy. Nor does he think he will ever be happy in our marriage. Regardless if things are changed. He goes out every night and now does not come home. He still provides financially as he says he “feels bad” for hurting me. In the beginning I was angry and was ready to give up. But then I started really praying and decided I wanted to fight for my marriage. But how do you fight for a marriage your spouse doesn’t want? He is enjoying being single and not having to worry about anyone but himself. He has never had that as we have been together since we were 18. We have two small children and I think we should try to work it out. We attended marriage counseling last week and he has agreed to go back. But he says only because he thinks it’s the only way to get divorced peacefully. At this point I’m not sure what to do. He says he no longer loves me and just feels sorry for me because I still love him. I apologize for the long post. I’m just struggling with the decision to let him go and start the healing process or keep fighting. Has anyone else been in this situation? Any prayers are appreciated.