My husband has said and done many terribly hurtful things to me during our 10 years of marriage. He point blank told me that work, friends, golf and alcohol are his priorities. I feel as long as he can do whatever he wants to, without conflict, everything is fine. I spent time with God this morning and heard a sermon which I believe spoke to me. Showing mercy to those who hurt you. How do I do this when it seems continual? My heart is heavy.