Recently I've been more and more bothered about what people have done or said to me in the past. Maybe it is because I live alone and I have more time to ponder on these things, or maybe it is because I was too busy before that I never gave enough attention to these issues and these feelings were repressed. Anyway, when I talk or meet these people now, I am reminded about they they said or did and it is affecting my relationships with them. One person said something that caused me trauma for six plus months, and this is one of the more bearable examples. These are people I love. I have brought up these issues to these people before, but they ended up either blaming me or denying. I have forgiven these people multiple times in my heart but sometimes I feel I have not since I'm still thinking about it and am bothered. Some things happened so long ago, and these people have changed and are now better people. I try to have a good time with these people but I am still reminded, so sometimes I feel I am putting an act. What should I do?
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