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RDG803

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I'm a single man and I live alone. I have no friends or a family of my own. I have hobbies, and interests, where most women my race are no into, but the women in other races don't believe that's what I like to do. Most of the times I sit alone at the park or go hikes on the Greenway, or recreational activities to get me through the day. In my family I feel like the black sheep. They don't realize how I'm feeling down deep. I'll just face the fact that I'll never be husband or a father, or an true friend or an inspiration to others. When I leave this world without being someone, I'll cry , knowing that I have nothing to be happy about and I tried. This is me!
 
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I'm a single man and I live alone. I have no friends or a family of my own. I have hobbies, and interests, where most women my race are no into, but the women in other races don't believe that's what I like to do. Most of the times I sit alone at the park or go hikes on the Greenway, or recreational activities to get me through the day. In my family I feel like the black sheep. They don't realize how I'm feeling down deep. I'll just face the fact that I'll never be husband or a father, or an true friend or an inspiration to others. When I leave this world without being someone, I'll cry , knowing that I have nothing to be happy about and I tried. This is me!
Jesus Dude! Rise up my warrior friend! Jesus has felt as you feel. Put on the armor of God! You were designed for great things! Sounds like you are under spiritual warfare. Read Ephesians 6:10-20. God talk to your pastor! A good Christian counselor! It is not good to be alone in your own thoughts. You need Jesus input in your brain. You need Jesus friends. Ask God to give you the energy to connect to others. I know it is hard, but you need to fight. John 10:10. Praying for your breakthrough!
 

AzureAfire

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It’s so easy to feel as if your life is just at that awful stand still….of just being alone and unwanted, and unfulfilled and unloved.

But during these times when we feel we are at our most lonesome and worthless selves….this is the time our LORD draws us near to Himself. We are more than our hopes and dreams….our cares and our fears. We are created by GOD and for GOD. To need and rely on HIM. To live for HIM and to abide in HIM. To hold onto HIM in full trust in HIS Word and all that HE is as HE has promised.

HE cares for us, and we have great value and purpose in HIS eyes. Far greater than our eyes can perceive and what our thoughts can fathom. HE loves us with a pure and everlasting love, that didn’t even withhold the very life of HIS precious Son, who died for our sins so we could be restored to HIM and adopted into HIS family 🙏🏼💖💫

It’s not easy to not be sorrowful, especially when we feel so alone and without. And there are nights when we might find ourselves terribly overwhelmed by these dark and awful thoughts and feelings. But please know that you are not alone. Our LORD sees us, and knows exactly how we feel. HE is inviting us into HIS throne of grace and mercy and love, to lay down all our cares and burdens upon HIS feet, and to pour out our hearts and thoughts before HIM in humble and heartfelt prayer. HE will meet us where we are, as we put our sole trust and confidence in HIM alone. And when we lack the strength and the faith, and even the words to speak….HE hears us still, and answers us, and provides for all that we need 🙏🏼💖💫


”Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.“
‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭5‬:‭6‬-‭7‬ ‭KJV‬‬

”For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.“
‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭29‬:‭11‬-‭13‬ ‭KJV‬‬


Don’t lose heart, and pray to our LORD. May you meet HIM and find your joy and peace, and may HE lead you in this life, towards the fulfilment of your hope and dreams, as you abide in HIM and trust in HIS love and HIS will for your life 🙏🏼💖💫
 

TabinRivCA

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Oct 23, 2018
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It’s so easy to feel as if your life is just at that awful stand still….of just being alone and unwanted, and unfulfilled and unloved.

But during these times when we feel we are at our most lonesome and worthless selves….this is the time our LORD draws us near to Himself. We are more than our hopes and dreams….our cares and our fears. We are created by GOD and for GOD. To need and rely on HIM. To live for HIM and to abide in HIM. To hold onto HIM in full trust in HIS Word and all that HE is as HE has promised.

HE cares for us, and we have great value and purpose in HIS eyes. Far greater than our eyes can perceive and what our thoughts can fathom. HE loves us with a pure and everlasting love, that didn’t even withhold the very life of HIS precious Son, who died for our sins so we could be restored to HIM and adopted into HIS family 🙏🏼💖💫

It’s not easy to not be sorrowful, especially when we feel so alone and without. And there are nights when we might find ourselves terribly overwhelmed by these dark and awful thoughts and feelings. But please know that you are not alone. Our LORD sees us, and knows exactly how we feel. HE is inviting us into HIS throne of grace and mercy and love, to lay down all our cares and burdens upon HIS feet, and to pour out our hearts and thoughts before HIM in humble and heartfelt prayer. HE will meet us where we are, as we put our sole trust and confidence in HIM alone. And when we lack the strength and the faith, and even the words to speak….HE hears us still, and answers us, and provides for all that we need 🙏🏼💖💫


”Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.“
‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭5‬:‭6‬-‭7‬ ‭KJV‬‬

”For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.“
‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭29‬:‭11‬-‭13‬ ‭KJV‬‬


Don’t lose heart, and pray to our LORD. May you meet HIM and find your joy and peace, and may HE lead you in this life, towards the fulfilment of your hope and dreams, as you abide in HIM and trust in HIS love and HIS will for your life 🙏🏼💖💫
That is so sweet and thoughtful, I can't say it any better! We should never think less of ourselves than God thinks of us, those thoughts are defeatist and not of God. God bless you AzureAfire🙏🌹for taking the time to respond, sounds like he's found some friends already😊
 

TabinRivCA

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Oct 23, 2018
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I'm a single man and I live alone. I have no friends or a family of my own. I have hobbies, and interests, where most women my race are no into, but the women in other races don't believe that's what I like to do. Most of the times I sit alone at the park or go hikes on the Greenway, or recreational activities to get me through the day. In my family I feel like the black sheep. They don't realize how I'm feeling down deep. I'll just face the fact that I'll never be husband or a father, or an true friend or an inspiration to others. When I leave this world without being someone, I'll cry , knowing that I have nothing to be happy about and I tried. This is me!
I invite you to join our online church, if you don't have one or until you find one, called Harvest at Home - Harvest Christian Fellowship Online. You'll get plugged in to Pastor Greg Laurie who welcomes all. Also, there are small groups, if you watch the sermon, that have Bible studies on the message, you can check out through Harvest website. We here in SoCal have a gal from Arkansas in our group. You'll get involved and be in the Word, if you don't have anything local. Or look up other online churches that teach the Word.
What you do with your life is up to you, excuses aren't a thing. Pray for God to open doors and expect good things to happen, not bad.
 

SomeDisciple

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Jul 4, 2021
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Most of the times I sit alone at the park or go hikes on the Greenway, or recreational activities to get me through the day.
Sounds like a good time. I know some married people that would kill to just be able to sit alone in the park.
I'll just face the fact that I'll never be husband or a father,
Counting your chickens before they hatch, I see.
, or an true friend or an inspiration to others.
You probably have been without realizing it at some point or another.

When I leave this world without being someone, I'll cry , knowing that I have nothing to be happy about and I tried. This is me!
A Christian's joy comes from who God is, first and foremost. When that is true for us; then we are made more like him.