Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Kauko

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You need to show your human side to people.
What ?
I'm 35 and she is 35. I didn't mean to give the impression I will help you know anything about her, but I just wanted you to know that there are single Christian girls in Finland. She has friends who are single and Christian. Get out there and start looking harder.
So shes older than me. Im 29. I have looked for years and failed all the time. I finally gave up when I was 28, but may consider resuming now.
 

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I randomly met her online somewhere. I sometimes preach the gospel of Christ on secular message boards or chat rooms if they will tolerate me.

Just a tip, people can tolerate a lot if they can relate to you, which is why our testimonies are important. You need to show your human side to people.

I'm 35 and she is 35. I didn't mean to give the impression I will help you know anything about her, but I just wanted you to know that there are single Christian girls in Finland. She has friends who are single and Christian. Get out there and start looking harder.
You provided sound counsel.
 

Kauko

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Perhaps there are non-church-going Christian women in Finland?
Heh but is even trickier to meet one of them. Where could I find such girl if not in church ? And remember we have to exclude all the fakes found among them, which are plenty. Sure there are some fakes who are churchgoers, but are more common in those who dont.

And also depends on age. If I find one aged 30, sorry but no way. I prefer girls aged 20 or a bit more, but not older than 25. And older than me absolutely not.
 

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I dont think its the same exactly in every country. For example, Finland must be different from say Bulgaria. Atleast in a certain way. Just like the US states are not all the same. California is not Texas. The same happens in Europe.
I still think Europe is more liberal on nudity when compared to the U.S. The hotels I've been at had only coed saunas (no clothing allowed, I asked). Also, it is not uncommon for the women to go topless at family beaches there. I think when people are more open to nudity, they are more open to sex. It is cultural.
 

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Heh but is even trickier to meet one of them. Where could I find such girl if not in church ? And remember we have to exclude all the fakes found among them, which are plenty. Sure there are some fakes who are churchgoers, but are more common in those who dont.

And also depends on age. If I find one aged 30, sorry but no way. I prefer girls aged 20 or a bit more, but not older than 25. And older than me absolutely not.
The higher you set the bar the less choices you will have. You can find 'such girl' anywhere, could be at the store or at work or just someone you run into. Finding a good woman is not a passive exercise but will require bold decisive action if an opportunity should arise.
 

Lynx

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And what then ? What then ? What I do with my life then ?
Anything. Everything. Or nothing. It's your choice.

Life is really big, and you will never live all of it before you die. How much you do live depends on how hard you try to live it.

Or you could just let it roll right past you and miss the best parts.

Time's ticking. Better get moving. There's a whole lot of life to live, and you only have so much time.
 

Kauko

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The higher you set the bar the less choices you will have. You can find 'such girl' anywhere, could be at the store or at work or just someone you run into. Finding a good woman is not a passive exercise but will require bold decisive action if an opportunity should arise.
Sounds more improbable than probable. In the best of the cases I have an 1% chance of success. Or supposing I find one, what if shes in a relationship ? This is very likely since there are more Christian guys than girls here.
 

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Sounds more improbable than probable. In the best of the cases I have an 1% chance of success. Or supposing I find one, what if shes in a relationship ? This is very likely since there are more Christian guys than girls here.
By the grace of God, a 1% chance can turn into a 100% certainty. If you give up your chances will be less than zero.
 

Kauko

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By the grace of God, a 1% chance can turn into a 100% certainty. If you give up your chances will be less than zero.
But how Im supposed to find her ? How can I know shes a good Christian ? What if I later realize shes in a relationship ?
 

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But how Im supposed to find her ? How can I know shes a good Christian ? What if I later realize shes in a relationship ?
How does anybody find anyone? Things just happen. Keep your eyes open and be prepared to act. You can know if a single woman is Christian by observing how she acts, what her priorities are and, particularly, how she treats those she comes into contact with. You can find out if she is in a relationship by simply asking her. Hint - always a bad sign if she has a ring on her ring finger of her left hand. That's probably a no-go.
 

Kauko

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How does anybody find anyone? Things just happen. Keep your eyes open and be prepared to act. You can know if a single woman is Christian by observing how she acts, what her priorities are and, particularly, how she treats those she comes into contact with. You can find out if she is in a relationship by simply asking her. Hint - always a bad sign if she has a ring on her ring finger of her left hand. That's probably a no-go.
And what if all the girls I approach are not Christians ?

Treating people in a friendly way doesnt mean one is a Christian.
 

Kauko

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Forget to add many girls treat guys in a friendly and lovable way only to obtain a particular interest from them, not because they are good.
 

Lanolin

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He has lots of passionfruit and wants to share.

sorry, I dont live in Finland and couldnt help. How about asking God about this one. I wonder if there are any finnish christian boys, perhaps this person is the ONLY one in the entire country.
 

Kauko

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I wonder if there are any finnish christian boys, perhaps this person is the ONLY one in the entire country.
Very few too. However it seems Christian girls are even fewer. I once found and talked with a 26 year old guy in a church. I also remember seeing a guy who looked to be in his early twenties. However I never found in my life a girl between the ages of 18-30 in church.
 

Lanolin

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maybe you really need go start spreading the gospel than just finding onE girl to be your wife.

Perhaps thats what God wants you to do, hey?
 

Lanolin

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Rather than packing a sad, see the mission field for what it is. Finland really needs Jesus.
and not just more 'churches' or church goers but genuine born again believers who love Him.