Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Kauko

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You truly believe you could attract that girl in your current state of mind?

You'd be putting on one HECK of a show if you did. 😒
The problem is that even if I changed, I would likely still be struggling with loneliness !
 

Magenta

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BUT SINGLEDOM IS NOT FOR ME !!! IM NOT ONE OF THOSE WHO CAN LIVE SINGLE FOREVER !!!
I do not recall reading in the Bible anything anywhere near saying, renew your minds that you be sure to remain stuck in your useless self centered desires, forsaking the wise counsel of others who reach out to help when you cry about how miserable you have made yourself seeking after the impossible pleasure which eludes your most ardent efforts and vain imaginings.
 

Kauko

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I do not recall reading in the Bible anything anywhere near saying, renew your minds that you be sure to remain stuck in your useless self centered desires, forsaking the wise counsel of others who reach out to help when you cry about how miserable you have made yourself seeking after the impossible pleasure which eludes your most ardent efforts and vain imaginings.
You said that marriage is not for everybody.

Well, JUST EXACTLY AS SINGLEDOM IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY !!!
 

seoulsearch

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The problem is that even if I changed, I would likely still be struggling with loneliness !
And you would still struggle with loneliness even if you found your imaginary princess.

But you refuse to listen to anyone here, including those who are married and have the experience.
 

seoulsearch

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You said that marriage is not for everybody.

Well, JUST EXACTLY AS SINGLEDOM IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY !!!
Keep crying out to God.

It's up to Him to decide for you, not for you to demand from Him.

You'll learn.

He may be keeping you single until you learn that.

Ad I heard in a sermon once, "Your arms are too short to box with God."
 

Kauko

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Keep crying out to God.

It's up to Him to decide for you, not for you to demand from Him.

You'll learn.

He may be keeping you single until you learn that.

Ad I heard in a sermon once, "Your arms are too short to box with God."
But why me, WHY FOR ME ??? WHY NOT FOR SOMEBODY WHO IS NOT A BELIEVER AND IS UNWILLING TO CHANGE INSTEAD ???

IM NOT THE WORST PERSON IN EARTH !!!
 

Magenta

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You said that marriage is not for everybody.

Well, JUST EXACTLY AS SINGLEDOM IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY !!!
Singleness is, if anything, a higher calling. You have not learned to be content in your situation.

Scripture talks about being refined in the furnace of affliction.

Somehow it is becoming more difficult to believe you are truly suffering.

I get the feeling you enjoy it too much. Whatever are you really up to here?

In all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

So regardless of what anyone else thinks of your situation, and regardless of how you feel about it now, if God's will is going to be accomplished in your life, you will come more fully to knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.
 

Kauko

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Singleness is, if anything, a higher calling. You have not learned to be content in your situation.

Scripture talks about being refined in the furnace of affliction.

Somehow it is becoming more difficult to believe you are truly suffering.

I get the feeling you enjoy it too much. Whatever are you really up to here?

Everything works to the good for those who love God and been called according to His purpose.

So regardless of what anyone else thinks of your situation, and regardless of how you feel about it now, if God's will is going to be accomplished in your life, you will come more fully to knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.
NO, Im NOT content with loneliness at all !

I want that girl, I want that girl !!! Atleast when I leave alcohol and become a better man !!!
 

RodB651

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We are to be content in all things...

Until then, you'll be where you are...

I'm done yall!
 

Kauko

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Why are you trying to insert on me that wanting a girlfriend of God is like wanting a gold olympic medal ?
 

Kauko

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Why are you unable to think out anything for yourself?

Woman want a man.

Not a tantruming toddler.
Yes, the problem is, WHAT WILL HAPPEN WHEN I SUCCESSFULLY CHANGE ???
 

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But why me, WHY FOR ME ??? WHY NOT FOR SOMEBODY WHO IS NOT A BELIEVER AND IS UNWILLING TO CHANGE INSTEAD ???

IM NOT THE WORST PERSON IN EARTH !!!
what happens if you die tomorrow night?
You will leave EVERYTHING BEHIND..your house keys,Mobile phone,clothes,FINLAND..EVERYTHING.
The ONLY thing that will really matter is the quality of you relationship with God through jesus christ.
One day you will have to face the lord and he will inspect the fruit of your life and you could be found guilty of idolatry for you had placed a female above God in your heart and worshipped her image to the point where you regarded you life meaningless without her.The idea or concept of her became your GOD and in a deceptive and deluded heart you have made the image of her become your God.
"Christ is your LIFE.Christ should be who you yearn for above all things.He should be the foundation and source of your lifes forfillment."


Theres nothing wrong with wanting a partner however you have become obsessive and unteachable because no matter how many people have tried to offer you wise godly counsel over and over again you refuse to listen.You had allowed yourself to become deceived by the desires of wanting a female.
Time is running out mate..You do not know when you will die or when jesus will return.
None of us knows what the future holds for us.
We have all been pointing you back to focus on the lord and giving you practical things you can to to help you in your situation.
How do you know that it is the lord graciously seeking to make you focus on him through the many messages here..hence people are STILL speaking to you...STILL seeking to guide you..being somehow patient with you..Recognise the lords gracious hand here and allow him to guide you ij the way that will release you from the constant torment of romantic desires.
Your life has too much potential to be loosin it being focused on this main thing as being the foundation to your sense of happiness and forfillment.