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Here is my story, relationship wise.I was a player when for 2years of my life,14-15.I then realised that the only thing I gained from making out with a girl who I barely knew was a story to tell my friends.I realised that I was looking for more and that the kissing was really not that great and I was looking for more in life. It was really just very dull and flat.I then realised this was because there was no love.I got the spirit led me to a point where I had repented my deeds and I had apologized to every girl in person. I then decided to never kiss another girl unless we are in a relationship and I decided to never go into a relationship unless I knew that it was Gods will and she was my wife.I never had a relationship because I knew they bring to much baggage that my one nights with girls don't.I was living this fantasy about a girl I knew for only 2 days when I was 12 and believed she was the one I would marry.Whenever I was starting to develop some feelings for any girl I would measure the girl to this girl I really don't know and haven't seen after that and I was just never prepared to let this fantasy/dream girl go.Thus I never when into a relationship.This all changed when I was 16.For the first time in 4 years I have started to develop feelings for a girl which and was prepared to let this dream go. Things didn't work out.I was really longing for that special woman in my life but kept on praying and telling God that I will wait on His prvidence and asking Him to look over my future wife.A year later things started again and I prayed and knew that God was talking.We got together and had 3.5years.She decided she needed to find herself.She said she was more in love than ever, but she had an guy who was 7years older coming to visit daily.Well a month later they were together.I went to God before I knew they were together. I told Him I would be fine if I was just used to help her grow, but asked if He could just let me release these feelings for her.He didn't answer me until a month later a asked Him what His will was.He told me she is my wife, but she's not ready and He has to do a lot of work with her.He spoke to me directly and as I know to test all with the word I asked Him to help me as I fear this might be my own wish and inner thought.He led me to Romans 4:19-25. He has brought a couple of things along my way to reinforce my believe.But she is still with the guy and tells everyone how she knows that this is where God wants her.When we broke up she said that my purpose in life may have been for me to help her meet him and her friends.I am exhausted and just want to turn my back on the whole situation but there is no way of me doing this without turning my back on God and that I cannot do.There are a lot of other things that happened but I just want to love again.She is pushing me out of my church and taking away my oppurtunies to do work in my church.
Any advice or motivation??
Any advice or motivation??