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TabinRivCA

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For fun…..if you could be blest with a loving mate for a Christmas present, what are some things you'd prefer. All Christian qualities are a given in this case.
Within what general area would make it easier, , what age range (if you want to say), interests, and personal traits do you admire? Are there any activities that you're into that would be a plus:):)
So it's almost Christmas so what would your list be like?
 

cinder

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Let's see I've got two t-shirts that should explain it:




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Ok if that second shirt (not sure where it went I thought I uploaded it) is hard to read it says: I like board games and like 3 people, the people I play board games with.

So I just want someone to play board games with and read and discuss interesting books with. If he knows how to make a proper pot of tea ( I drink it by the pot) that's a bonus. Marriage not required.
 

Solemateleft

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- Kind Heart: Genuinely sweet, wholesome personality
- Beautiful smile/Pretty face
- Capacity for demonstrating unconditional love
- Well-balanced life-style spiritually, emotionally, physically
- Self-confident, content with self and knows self-worth...
- Open-minded and adventurist
 

Mii

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A totally selfish Christmas match? For fun of course.

A clone of myself in female form, whose mind and spirit operates identically in the opposite gender.

I've considered this as a curious equation, that possibly together we could crack the gender code! ;)


Man: I don't understand females
Woman: I don't understand males

In unison: "Ah let us begin"

The Lord: ...
 

Dino246

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Christmas match? What if I'm more of a flint-and-steel kind of person?

Hmmm... if Christian qualities are a given, I'll add physically healthy, wise, fun, ambiverted, fairly tall, and beautiful to me.

Tolerance of my puns is optional; enjoyment of my lasagne is not. ;)
 

Lynx

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When have people ever really known what they want?

When I look back at what I used to want, the things I was sure would make me happy, I can see that if I got everything I wanted I would have been miserable.

I know what I think I want. But I'm glad I don't get everything I think I want. And if I did get everything I thought I wanted, I'd probably complain about it.

I have no idea what I really want in a spouse, or even a date. I know what I think I want. But I don't have a clue what I need.
 

KhedetOrthos

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For fun…..if you could be blest with a loving mate for a Christmas present, what are some things you'd prefer. All Christian qualities are a given in this case.
Within what general area would make it easier, , what age range (if you want to say), interests, and personal traits do you admire? Are there any activities that you're into that would be a plus:):)
So it's almost Christmas so what would your list be like?
Proverbs 31.

Y’all have just been Jesus Juked. :)
Oh, and Merry Christmas...
 

tourist

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Let's see I've got two t-shirts that should explain it:




View attachment 208741
Ok if that second shirt (not sure where it went I thought I uploaded it) is hard to read it says: I like board games and like 3 people, the people I play board games with.

So I just want someone to play board games with and read and discuss interesting books with. If he knows how to make a proper pot of tea ( I drink it by the pot) that's a bonus. Marriage not required.
Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt.
 

Lanolin

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well, my cat is going to be blessed because Im staying home this year. She doesnt give out her age, her interests seems to be lying around in the sun, and her personal traits that are admirable is that she doesnt care about money.

Her activities seem to be no activities except bird watching.

Usually every christmas the family go somewhere without her and arent back home until 1am so shes starving by the time we get home. I always thought well I can see my family any other time of year or they can come see me so its really not fair to abandon her every Christmas. Shes part of the family too.
 

Solemateleft

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For fun…..if you could be blest with a loving mate for a Christmas present, what are some things you'd prefer. All Christian qualities are a given in this case.
Within what general area would make it easier, , what age range (if you want to say), interests, and personal traits do you admire? Are there any activities that you're into that would be a plus:):)
So it's almost Christmas so what would your list be like?
So @TabinRivCA we are all patiently awaiting to see you response to your Christmas Match wish-list... :)
 

Lanolin

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yes. Tabincra.
I always thought people that start these kinds of threads also ought to answer them as well.

Why are YOU single? no, why are are YOU single. I'm not I'm married just asked to see if you werent married. Its like WHY. Oh ok. lol
 

KhedetOrthos

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well, my cat is going to be blessed because Im staying home this year. She doesnt give out her age, her interests seems to be lying around in the sun, and her personal traits that are admirable is that she doesnt care about money.

Her activities seem to be no activities except bird watching.
...she may appear harmless but she is hatching a plot against you.
 

TabinRivCA

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So @TabinRivCA we are all patiently awaiting to see you response to your Christmas Match wish-list... :)
OK....given he's a Christian, when I meet 'him' I want our eyes/spirits to lock with that look like it is a match from Heaven.
yes. Tabincra.
I always thought people that start these kinds of threads also ought to answer them as well.

Why are YOU single? no, why are are YOU single. I'm not I'm married just asked to see if you werent married. Its like WHY. Oh ok. lol
I'm single, widowed twice and kicked my son's dad out after he sold a pistol of mine for a rock of meth and thought we would just party for a week.
So I mainly start these threads for the ones hoping to start a family or just get to know someone.
Another wish would be everyone on CC desiring a spouse meet them whether on CC or elsewhere this coming year.
 

Tinkerbell725

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The question why are you single is offensive for some singles. When married people ask me this question, like there must be something wrong with me, I am tempted to ask them back, "why are you married?" with the same facial expression.
 

TabinRivCA

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The question why are you single is offensive for some singles. When married people ask me this question, like there must be something wrong with me, I am tempted to ask them back, "why are you married?" with the same facial expression.
I agree, Tink, Merry Christmas!
 

Lanolin

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...she may appear harmless but she is hatching a plot against you.
no that would be the chicken.
well I wasnt too late with her dinner got home round 9ish as usually christmas has my rellies going on past midnight.
Also she appears to have made some other friends with new cats round the neighbourhood.

I have made some new friends with my neighbours this year although opposite sex ones seem to be few and far between. But even in my school the girls out number the boys so I think its actually got something to do with the population imbalance more than anything else, statistically speaking my country even declared a man drought and thats why many moved to Australia.
 

Dino246

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... statistically speaking my country even declared a man drought and thats why many moved to Australia.
It's interesting to learn of the varied effects of climate change around the world.
 
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A cute guy, physically fit, somewhere near my age give or take 5 years, with a great sense of humor. Bonus if he doesn't mind good song references or even makes a few himself.