Do you want to know....
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I'd like to know. I am rather shy when it comes to the whole asking women out thing. Not that I'd want a woman to propose marriage to me, but it be nice to be told someone likes me as more than a friend. Otherwise I will probably never know, plus as far as I am aware no one is particularly attracted to me. Heh quite frankly, maybe I am a bit of a hopeless romantic, but if a woman that I found to be okay looking said this to me I'd be pretty smitten. So I voted "Yes, because I might like them back."
Though of course I don't think this will be a problem for me anytime soon, if ever lol.
Though of course I don't think this will be a problem for me anytime soon, if ever lol.
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So if someone liked me in a "romantic" sense,would I want to know is what yer' asking?
Anyone who truly is my friend & knows me,knows that they can say anything at any time to me. I'd hope that they would feel comfortable in sharing that...if they didn't,then chances are they're not the type of friend I'd want to be involved with in that deeper sense that would be romantic and lead to dating and/or marriage.
Anyone who truly is my friend & knows me,knows that they can say anything at any time to me. I'd hope that they would feel comfortable in sharing that...if they didn't,then chances are they're not the type of friend I'd want to be involved with in that deeper sense that would be romantic and lead to dating and/or marriage.
ten years ago i would've said, "oh please NO!!!!"
the last time this happened to me we ended up talking about it, and i was able to honestly share what i felt about him. it was a really uncomfortable conversation, but i was glad to be given that chance to share my thoughts and how much i valued him as a good friend.
by clearing the air, it completely removed that weird dynamic that has developed, and i stopped worrying that he was going to make some awkward confession at any moment.
while i was pretty sure how he felt about me, i never felt directly free to address it without his opening that door. besides, what if i was wrong? AWKWARD!!!
it's been a couple years, and we're still friends today, by the way.
the last time this happened to me we ended up talking about it, and i was able to honestly share what i felt about him. it was a really uncomfortable conversation, but i was glad to be given that chance to share my thoughts and how much i valued him as a good friend.
by clearing the air, it completely removed that weird dynamic that has developed, and i stopped worrying that he was going to make some awkward confession at any moment.
while i was pretty sure how he felt about me, i never felt directly free to address it without his opening that door. besides, what if i was wrong? AWKWARD!!!
it's been a couple years, and we're still friends today, by the way.
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I think I would want the person to tell me if they liked me, because then I could honestly tell them yes or not and not leave them hanging. It's a terrible feeling. I would be compassionate and understand their feelings, but give them the opportunity to get a real answer.
There was a guy, whom I still know, who I liked for almost 2 years without ever truly telling him at all. I still have regrets for not being brave enough just to let it be known. Then at least he could have been honest and given me and answer. Who knows, maybe he knew and it hurt him that he couldn't just tell me I didn't have a chance.
There was a guy, whom I still know, who I liked for almost 2 years without ever truly telling him at all. I still have regrets for not being brave enough just to let it be known. Then at least he could have been honest and given me and answer. Who knows, maybe he knew and it hurt him that he couldn't just tell me I didn't have a chance.
