for a relationship?
When is a young adult ready for marriage?
When is one ready for another relationship after a divorce, the death of a spouse, or a personal tragedy?
There are some emotional scars that people will carry with them for the rest of their lives. How does one know when one is healed enough to pursue a relationship? or mature enough? We probably all know people who are not ready for a relationship for whatever reason. We may even say such things about ourselves.
And these things may even be true for a while. But how long? I will always have a sense of regret for my own contributions to a bad marriage. I forgave myself. I forgave my ex wife - I've even prayed for her. I've allowed God to heal me - to get rid of anger...of feelings of abandonment. I've gone from being repulsed by the idea of dating, to reluctantly dating a little bit before I was ready to, to being totally open to the possibility of meeting someone special. I'm wondering when that happened - it's not like I woke up one day saying "I'm ready for a relationship!" when I hadn't felt that way the day before.
So is there a determining factor where one can determine that they are mature enough, or healthy enough to share their lives with someone?
When is a young adult ready for marriage?
When is one ready for another relationship after a divorce, the death of a spouse, or a personal tragedy?
There are some emotional scars that people will carry with them for the rest of their lives. How does one know when one is healed enough to pursue a relationship? or mature enough? We probably all know people who are not ready for a relationship for whatever reason. We may even say such things about ourselves.
And these things may even be true for a while. But how long? I will always have a sense of regret for my own contributions to a bad marriage. I forgave myself. I forgave my ex wife - I've even prayed for her. I've allowed God to heal me - to get rid of anger...of feelings of abandonment. I've gone from being repulsed by the idea of dating, to reluctantly dating a little bit before I was ready to, to being totally open to the possibility of meeting someone special. I'm wondering when that happened - it's not like I woke up one day saying "I'm ready for a relationship!" when I hadn't felt that way the day before.
So is there a determining factor where one can determine that they are mature enough, or healthy enough to share their lives with someone?