Those of the Spirit of Truth know their brethren and hear their voice.
You can go mock and offend your neighbors Tommy, those that are of the same spirit as you are, offend one another, for the Hand of the Lord sustains me and renews me in Him and a time comes when you will drink the cup of His bitterness unless you repent and start listening to His Word to produce sound fruit.
You the one calling people fakers and liars. Because of that, I'll mock you all I want. You don't have the upper body strength to do anything about it, and God isn't giving it to you.
You come here, telling people God will make someone a wife from a rock, just for them. Please cite one example of God doing this in the past 2000 years. I assume you believe if a man prays really hard, and is a good little boy, God will take control of a womans mind, and force her love this little believer.
I have no doubt God could do these things, but no evidence suggests he will, and who would want to be the poor girl, who is forced to be the liver of a male who is too sissy to go and fight for a girl.
Obviously, singles forum is not for you. Maybe you can find an audience in the Bible Discussion Forum.
The OP asked for advice on how to Identify a prospective mate, not false hope God is going to force a woman to love him.
No one is buying what you are selling.