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Ladies would you marry a man you see disrespects women? Anyone is open to give there views
 

Lynx

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I'm not a lady, but I can vote on this one. I wouldn't stand for any sister of mine marrying a boy who disses women.

My cousin got married to this one guy and he was making fun of the size of her backside right before the wedding. I didn't say anything but I could tell right then it wouldn't last long. And it didn't.
 
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I'm not a lady, but I can vote on this one. I wouldn't stand for any sister of mine marrying a boy who disses women.

My cousin got married to this one guy and he was making fun of the size of her backside right before the wedding. I didn't say anything but I could tell right then it wouldn't last long. And it didn't.
Wow!! That's pretty sad actually
 
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Well for me a man that don't respect women is a huge turn off. Makes you wonder where he get his upbringing from. Ladies don't think you can change a disrespectful man, because you cant. If he disrespect any woman he will disrespect you, ain't no if's and or buts about it. I suggest ladies get away from a man like that quick.
 
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Ladies would you marry a man you see disrespects women? Anyone is open to give there views
Absolutely not. Usually if someone is disrespectful to the opposite gender, it's typically a red flag on how they will treat you.
 

Lanolin

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of course not, but not only would a lady not marry them but she probably would not even talk with them at all.
sorry. Just seems like a weird question to ask.

Though I guess some men can act all nice to your face and then behind your back be dissing you (or are there some women who believe they are the exception, that everyone else that is female deserves disrespect except for them? )
 

EmilyNats

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Nope. I wouldn't even associate myself with such a person.
 

stilllearning

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Have to agree with Lanolin, seems a very odd question to act. Reason being is who would set themselves up for such. So I speculate that you had a bigger point you wanted to make, which I could be wrong. So anyway in case you did I will ask the obvious question how are you defining disrespect as that would be subjective based upon each individual.
 

BrotherMike

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Disrespectful, being unkind, female or male bashing is an automatic no in my book. Anyone who accepts this is going to live a hard life.
 

Lanolin

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Im guessing some dont have a choice who they marry as maybe their parents arranged the marriage (or paid for the wedding) and they couldnt back out.

But that would be kind of silly to agree to marry someone you didnt really like. Most wives say he acted all nice at first couple of months but then honeymoon wore off, or he drank and started beating them up. Maybe they had never witnessed them being drunk before.

I think a lot of men just get violent when they are drunk even if they are the nicest guy when sober.

Not to say women dont as well its equal opportunity, I heard of women smashing up tv sets when drunk..they dont tend to beat up the men though, but they can curse a blue streak and yell and scream