Only dating one person your entire life and having them be your life partner

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I want my future partner to be my first and last...heheh but i dont mind if i am not his first as long as im his last..
 

Fenner

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No worries Bambi, welcome to CC.
 
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Peter96

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It is actually God's will that we be with only one person of the opposite gender until we are married, if it is His will for us to get married, if not then not at all. Dating is very dangerous and leads to fornication and adultery and ends up in a lot of pain. I am waiting for a woman who will be my wife to enter my life. Until then I will not date.
 
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this is as Yahweh has made us. not just possible, but it is as Yahweh has planned and revealed in His Word (Bible).

the world will confound, confuse, and abuse you and all others who seek to live as the Creator has made us to live in Christ Jesus.

stick with Yahweh, (God), the Creator, as He gives grace to do so in Christ Jesus, and you will not ever be disappointed (by Him, in this life, and for eternity which only He promises and provides.).


I've always prayed that God would send me the right person and that would be the one that I would marry. I know that it might not be possible, but I've also prayed that he's never dated anyone either. I would like to know what everyone thinks on this subject. Do you think it's possible and do you think it's strange that I'm thinking that way? Does anyone else pray this too?
 

Lynx

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Here we go again...
 

JesusLives

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I've always prayed that God would send me the right person and that would be the one that I would marry. I know that it might not be possible, but I've also prayed that he's never dated anyone either. I would like to know what everyone thinks on this subject. Do you think it's possible and do you think it's strange that I'm thinking that way? Does anyone else pray this too?
We have one that has been brought back to life....aren't these referred to as a zombie thread?
 
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I've always prayed that God would send me the right person and that would be the one that I would marry. I know that it might not be possible, but I've also prayed that he's never dated anyone either. I would like to know what everyone thinks on this subject. Do you think it's possible and do you think it's strange that I'm thinking that way? Does anyone else pray this too?
Emily!

A person who has dated another does not necesarily means he is fairly well-experienced or less "pure".

Dating is a process of going out to see how two would cope with in the future (Just guessing!)

I never dated. (a lie)
 
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Kaycie

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I prayed this as a kid, I wanted that more than anything else in this life. Yes I believe it's possible and awesome.
 
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Shouryu

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Guys.

Guys?

GUYS.

This thread was started SIX YEARS AGO. The member you are replying to isn't even a member of the site anymore!

*sigh*
 
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When I was younger I was the same, and always thought without question I would marry a sweet innocent "pure" christian girl.
All I can say from my experince is if you set YOUR own standards too high, you may well be setting yourself up for dissapointment.
Now i'm 29 and at this age my chances of finding sweet innocent christian girl are mathematically insignificant, and even if I did you can pretty much bet she almost certainly won't be a virgin.
That'll learn me to be picky-picky! I've knocked back a lot of girls over the years holding out for perfection, my own pride got me in the end, lol!

Sorry for asking, are your gf now not a christian but virgin? Sorry for asking..
 

Lynx

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*facepalm

Thank you for playing, but the OP is by now in another castle.
 
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Breeze7

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I feel only dating one person is okay but it is not evil to date more than one. If you feel you were made magnificent by god that's how everyone else feels about themselves. Then to over look that or ignore that is certainly ignorant. There are so many people/population we should be able to have many friends as jesus considered the whole world his disciples. We should always keep an open mind in dating I feel..