POLL: Not thinking before you speak vs. Thinking too much before you speak

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Are you a 'blurter' or a 'thinker'?

  • I always just blurt out whatever I'm thinking

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I do more blurting than thinking.

    Votes: 7 26.9%

  • I do more thinking than blurting.

    Votes: 12 46.2%

  • I always catch myself thinking carefully before I speak.

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • Other (explain below)

    Votes: 4 15.4%
  • Total voters
    26
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Relena7

Guest
#21
#21
I struggle with either thinking too much and not contributing much at all, or just blurting my thoughts. I don't have a very good "in between".

With new people, I take a very long time getting to know them. I don't do silly banter with people who are not close friends or family (because this involves blurting). I can appear really aloof or boring to most new people because I don't want them to see my personality until I feel like it's safe.
 
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