Situational Chaos

[Milothethird]

I know this isn't a great title it might be... Although, the main point of this post is have you ever been in a situation that you feel God has a presences in, like you hear that voice saying you two are meant for each other? Even though you have let say technical issues well, the person who I like she is currently in a relationship. On the other hand, I've kind of liked her from the time we meet, she was seeing someone then. She recently broke up with the other guy, and is now seeing this other guy. Continuing on, here is a little tricky part and I am little afraid to post on her because I don't know is she is part of this community. She is one my sister-in-law's best friend and is the Godmother to both of my nieces. I am a little afraid to tell someone that I like her. Although, I have told only one person kind of in confidentiality which is my Mom, but I don't if she could kept the secret. Have you ever like someone that you felt like your meant to be with which you can't even tell them? I do talk to her, but it just seems like it is bits and pieces.

 

[cinder]

If you think God is telling you a what, best to ask him when, how, and what do I do about it right now.

But it sounds like this woman has gone very quickly from one relationship to the next, that's something that would make me cautious about a potential partner. And I don't see any way it would turn out well to confess your feelings to someone who is so close to your family while she is dating someone else.

If I were you all I'd be doing about it right now is biding my time and making sure that the voice it seems I'm hearing is God and not my loneliness or hormones screaming at me.

 

[Ugly]

I was thinking the same thing cinder was, if this woman hops around so quickly that's a red flag.
One thing I have learned both on CC and in my personal life, is that people often believe they hear from God about who to date, yet it's so rarely true.
I have been in relationships that it would be Impossible for God to tell me it was right, yet that is exactly what I convinced myself was happening. It's easy to hear what we want, no matter how much it contradicts Gods word or character.
It sounds like there are a lot of reasons this would be a bad idea. Perhaps you should focus more on that.

 

[Sweetmorningdew78]

I'll just make this short 😊 if you feel like you two are for each other then maybe try to approach her... looking at her from a far...and feeling that you and her are meant for each other would be forever feeling if you won't approach her. See what will going to happen...

I understand it is hard but you have to understand too that you need to take one courageous step to make it happen... Take a deep breath and jump if you want her 😊 there are only two possibilities either she will like you too or she will not...if she will like you too then it is party time 😄 if not just dust off and keep moving forward maybe in your next turn u will bump into the person that is really for you 😊

 

[Milothethird]

There is a lot to the story I don't want to ruin a friendship, but the best option for me is to get back in gear of going to church week reading and praying daily. Focusing on becoming more Christ-like. If it were in God's plans something would have happen. I just need to memorize the verse about love being patient, love being kind. I think I need to just have 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 ingrain in my head from now on.

 

[Tommy379]

You are forever friend zoned my friend. Move on