why am i worried for no reason?what can i do?

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sorry

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i have been having some tough times and just seems to be draining me of my patiance. my ex girlfriend has got me a real mess. at first i agreed to be friends with her. then i got close again thinking i might see things turn arround soon. but they dident and i am glad i was her friend long enough to figure out that she wont be changing her ways for god or me. my problem with things now is that i worrie how long it is going to take her to get over me. she dosent have any contact with me and i want it that way but she is still trying to get me to talk to her and i dont think that is a good idea when everytime i do she tries to get me to do things with her and i know i cant be in that position again. thank you for reading this. hope there are some ideas or understanding that helps. thanks.
 
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Remmy

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hi there,first of all,im sorry to hear about your situation.
i kinda know where your coming from..i broke up wiht my bf recently after almost 6years of being toghter and even sharing a son.
it took me 2years to put and to this relationship,so we had been on and of for the last 2years but now we are not toghter anymore..and he also keeps calling and sending me text msgs everyday saying he cant be without me and that hes gonna change...in the beginning i also felt like ''hey,maybe we should just be friends'' but believeme eveytime we started talkin,he started to talk about us again so thats what kept me going back and forth...but now that i have put an end to it we dont talk anymore..its not that im angry with him or anything it is better this way beacause he keeps texting me veryday and tryna to get back with me so it is not wise to be friends with such a person because you are basically setting yourself up for tempatation again..i mean we do talk every now and then concerning our son but thats it,nothing more.
it is ok to break off such a friendship...i use to feel guilty too in the beginning for not talking to him at all but sometimes you have to do what is right for the sake of not making another mistake.
i beleive that in these times of loniless we hear Gods voice the best..so i would say move on and pray for your ex and let her use her lonely time calling on to God instead of calling on to you..if her heart aint right with the lord than you will always have problems with her. maybe in the future when she commits her life to God you will be able to get toghter again.
just pray and ask God to give you wisdom and strength,and pray for her too.

i will pray for you too..i hope my advise helped a little..if it didnt,im sorry
God bless
 
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sorry

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Hi Remmy, please dont be sorry. your message was clear to me. your advice does help me with the way i should feal about my situation. thank you!!!!!!!! I must learn from this exspirience if i am going to keep heading in the right direction with the lord. i wont go back to her ever.!!! there are things that people should never do to one another and she was a repeated afender, and i cant live that way any more or ever again.
 
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sweet_eyes

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I agree with remmy, God calls us sometimes to disconnect with ppl for our own good. pray that God gives you wisdom...God Bless...Anna....:)
 
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sorry

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thank you very much and GOD BLESS.