Why do christian women want only tall guys?

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Magenta

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Lol 185 cm is 6ft ๐Ÿ˜‚ it is not short ๐Ÿ˜‚

I am a small woman and 6 ft is like a building already for me ๐Ÿ˜‚

Where did u hear that lol I was not informed ๐Ÿ˜‚
Regular search engine search main page says 5'9" is average height for men.

And also this ~

Q: Is 5' 9" a good height for a guy?

A: 5โ€ฒ9 is a very good height for a guy, it's perfectly average, very round height, taller than most girls
and not short at all, in fact, it's really far away from short, it's closer to 6ft than 5โ€ฒ5, think about that.
5โ€ฒ9 guys who think they are short are literally psychosโ€ฆ what would a 5โ€ฒ4 or 5โ€ฒ5 guy say?
 

Subhumanoidal

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Lol 185 cm is 6ft ๐Ÿ˜‚ it is not short ๐Ÿ˜‚


I am a small woman and 6 ft is like a building already for me ๐Ÿ˜‚


Where did u hear that lol I was not informed ๐Ÿ˜‚
Actually, at least in the US and perhaps other westernized countries there is truth to this. It's well documented. There are certain physical features that have become the preference (I find most commonly in circles involving lots of younger, shallow people). And it's not an issue of physical attraction but what specific traits supposedly say about men. Shorter men, balding men and overweight men are assumed to be less wealthy, less competent and therefore less desirable, or even undesirable.
Of course if a short, bald man throwing money around is more attractive to such people since there's actually evidence of the traits these women look for.
 

Lynx

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but i am 185 cm, which is not small. why do woman want guys who are 190 cm + only? why are you women so shallow? everything has to be perfect. how would you females feel if we guys wanted all women to be 140 cm? thank God we males are not shallow
Holy crap, this again?

If you can't find a date, move on and do something else. Life is too short to sit around crying all the time.

And if you think men are not shallow, go back and read some of your own posts. You should be doing something with your life instead of whining on a forum interminably.
 
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but i am 185 cm, which is not small. why do woman want guys who are 190 cm + only? why are you women so shallow? everything has to be perfect. how would you females feel if we guys wanted all women to be 140 cm? thank God we males are not shallow
Why say male and female? Why not say men and women? Weโ€™re not dogs.
Also, tall men are just more attractive.

Most men find thin women with long hair attractive.
 

seoulsearch

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but i am 185 cm, which is not small. why do woman want guys who are 190 cm + only? why are you women so shallow? everything has to be perfect. how would you females feel if we guys wanted all women to be 140 cm? thank God we males are not shallow
Most men find thin women with long hair attractive.
This brings up a good point.

@KJ91 -- on a scale of 1-10, with #1 being "No Way!" and #10 being "You Bet I Would!", how likely would you be to date a God-fearing, virgin woman who is very active in her church and, let's say, 250 lb. with short hair? (No, I'm not describing myself or anyone in particular, I'm just using this as an example.)

Keep in mind, some women have short hair for good reasons, such as psoriasis and other skin conditions that are not contagious, but can cause the person who has it a lot of pain and discomfort. Short hair can be much better for the treatments they might need and for keeping their condition under control.

So again, how likely are you to say yes to a woman who is 250 lbs. and has short hair?

If you say that would be no problem, I applaud you.

If you say that a woman being overweight and having short hair would be a deal-breaker, why are you allowed to base your decisions of attractiveness on physical appearance, but others are not?

I'm not saying it's necessarily right or wrong in either case.

I'm just saying, no one should have a right to justify their own prejudices while condemning others for doing the same thing as they are.
 

cinder

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if you saw me, you would puke
Your attitude is enough to produce that effect. None of us have needed to see you. Which means that you could look like the hottest Hollywood actor and you'd still be unattractive to a lot of ladies simply due to your attitude. No one wants to be around a constantly negative and accusatory person.

Why don't you do something awesome and positive with your life instead of obsessing over what you don't have?
 

Lynx

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Why don't you do something awesome and positive with your life instead of obsessing over what you don't have?
But... But... But complaining is just so much easier! And much more popular - everybody's doing it. :p
 

HealthAndHappiness

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Regular search engine search main page says 5'9" is average height for men.

And also this ~

Q: Is 5' 9" a good height for a guy?

A: 5โ€ฒ9 is a very good height for a guy, it's perfectly average, very round height, taller than most girls
and not short at all, in fact, it's really far away from short, it's closer to 6ft than 5โ€ฒ5, think about that.
5โ€ฒ9 guys who think they are short are literally psychosโ€ฆ what would a 5โ€ฒ4 or 5โ€ฒ5 guy say?
Yes, you are right.
Just remember that a "Poor me" attitude is kinda like the other side of the spectrum of the, "I've got a successful bus business", however it's an van when not managing the Dairy Queen (as "I'm a corporate manager") bait.
Some guys use this forum like a dating app and use different bait to go fishing. I've not seen so many self deprecating threads from new men here before. It seems to work for some.
 

Moses_Young

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I can't understand why the OP doesn't impress Christian women with his bo hunting skills or computer hacking skills. They would fall so much in love with him.

Yes anything under 190cm is consider to be small nowdays. myself i am 185 cm which is average. why is average not enough anymore?
Guys with big feet are better dancers. Or funnier. I forget which. Possibly both.

Why do non Christian women want short guys?
Non-Christian girls can't dance. So they are looking for boyfriends who won't show them up. Also, who will fit closer to the kitchen sink. I mean, who decides who the woman is, these days? It's too tricky to define (for non-Christians).
 

HealthAndHappiness

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Lol 185 cm is 6ft ๐Ÿ˜‚ it is not short ๐Ÿ˜‚


I am a small woman and 6 ft is like a building already for me ๐Ÿ˜‚


Where did u hear that lol I was not informed ๐Ÿ˜‚
He needs to enroll in a Filipino Arnis class and then maybe then he will feel adequate.
 

Magenta

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@KJ91 -- on a scale of 1-10, with #1 being "No Way!" and #10 being "You Bet I Would!", how likely would
you be to date a God-fearing, virgin woman who is very active in her church and, let's say, 250 lb. with
short hair? (No, I'm not describing myself or anyone in particular, I'm just using this as an example.)
I was thinking 450 pounds or more, six feet six inches tall... and let's say, no hair. .:unsure:
 

cinder

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I was thinking 450 pounds or more, six feet six inches tall... and let's say, no hair. .:unsure:
Don't you mean plenty of hair in all kinds of places except the top of her head? ( Tempted to post a pic of my leg hair as an example but I won't)