Hmmm. Its pretty risky. Nowadays, HIV is prominent every where. It doesnt directly show you any signs and symptoms but it will take time for it to progress. And it's really hard because there would no physical contact between you and her not unless you want to acquire it. I suggest that you avoid it by all means. Remember that there are still no vaccines available for HIV. And another problem is that it will also severely affect your offsprings. But if it's already there then all you can do is to provide her emotional and spiritual support.