Would a Christian girl ever even love a guy like me?

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Mielkefive

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This is just a question I have running though my head nothing special. I plan to enlist into the Army in 2-3 years. Maybe go for infantry or something with computers. Anyway personally I feel like if I got a Christian girlfriend one day I would not make the best boyfriend, I would maybe get deployed to another country for weeks/months on end. I also feel like my personality is bad, I’m sometimes don’t make the right choice in life and also feel angered if a person does not listen to me or care about what I’m saying. Just honestly would god even have someone out there for me even if I have these problems.
 

Tommy379

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This is just a question I have running though my head nothing special. I plan to enlist into the Army in 2-3 years. Maybe go for infantry or something with computers. Anyway personally I feel like if I got a Christian girlfriend one day I would not make the best boyfriend, I would maybe get deployed to another country for weeks/months on end. I also feel like my personality is bad, I’m sometimes don’t make the right choice in life and also feel angered if a person does not listen to me or care about what I’m saying. Just honestly would god even have someone out there for me even if I have these problems.
God has no one out there for you, or anyone else. God doesn't make people for other people. God made us for him.

Do the Army, and get that over with. Then start dating until you sucker a descent woman into selecting you as her mate.

Chicks probably dig infantrymen more than computers.
 

mar09

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Sep 17, 2014
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Why not? And who can really tell... what will happen in 2-3 years being away? You are young, mielke, and people do change whether we like it or not. But the good thing is if you see your weaknesses, and ask God's help to change or take away the not so good traits or qualities you have. In God's good time, you'll see He makes all things beautiful.

Be blessed, and go in peace, young man. You never know what God has in store for those who love and obey Him!