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Kyless123

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The bible says babies are a gift from God and My wife and I have been married 6 years now and have three children which is a good number for us. I never wanted more than that but she did cause she likes babies but lately when she's with them when I'm gone she sees how much work it is and now shes ok with how many we have. Soo now I say tell God your plans and watch him change it. She just told me shes pregnant with number four now and I don't know to feel about it. I see my life and God knows my life. I see that three is enough but God doesn't agree with that. So now I'm not sure what to think and maybe should get a vasectomy but dont know the aftermath of having that done either.
God just wants to bless us
 

Demi777

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Both of u can do something. You can get fixed. My dad did too. It doesn't change anything. Its a standard procedure or get some contraceptives.
And there's also something called ovulation tests. It can show if ur wife is fruitful or not .

U havr dozens of options
 

Kyless123

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Both of u can do something. You can get fixed. My dad did too. It doesn't change anything. Its a standard procedure or get some contraceptives.
And there's also something called ovulation tests. It can show if ur wife is fruitful or not .

U havr dozens of options
We are both pretty fruitful so we have to do something about it
 

Demi777

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We are both pretty fruitful so we have to do something about it
I mean the test shows the fruitful days. Cant u go to planned parenthood or talk to a doctor. They can tell u what options there are and all tge pros and cons
 

blue_ladybug

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The bible says babies are a gift from God and My wife and I have been married 6 years now and have three children which is a good number for us. I never wanted more than that but she did cause she likes babies but lately when she's with them when I'm gone she sees how much work it is and now shes ok with how many we have. Soo now I say tell God your plans and watch him change it. She just told me shes pregnant with number four now and I don't know to feel about it. I see my life and God knows my life. I see that three is enough but God doesn't agree with that. So now I'm not sure what to think and maybe should get a vasectomy but dont know the aftermath of having that done either.
God just wants to bless us

The solution is a no-brainer: Get a vasectomy and she needs to get spayed.

The 2 of you need to start being more responsible when you have sex. You already have 3 kids, with another one on the way. You've already been "fruitful and multiplied" 4 times now. Now it's time to get spayed and neutered..
 

Demi777

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The solution is a no-brainer: Get a vasectomy and she needs to get spayed.

The 2 of you need to start being more responsible when you have sex. You already have 3 kids, with another one on the way. You've already been "fruitful and multiplied" 4 times now. Now it's time to get spayed and neutered..
Well woman fixing is more dangerous. Itd enough if he gets fixed
 

Kyless123

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Dec 2, 2018
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I mean the test shows the fruitful days. Cant u go to planned parenthood or talk to a doctor. They can tell u what options there are and all tge pros and cons
Getting snipt is the best. The other methods arnt as good
 

Kyless123

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The solution is a no-brainer: Get a vasectomy and she needs to get spayed.

The 2 of you need to start being more responsible when you have sex. You already have 3 kids, with another one on the way. You've already been "fruitful and multiplied" 4 times now. Now it's time to get spayed and neutered..
I'd say we are. The monthly timing was off from what it was supposed to be and second protection didnt help I'd help
 

Miri

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The bible says babies are a gift from God and My wife and I have been married 6 years now and have three children which is a good number for us. I never wanted more than that but she did cause she likes babies but lately when she's with them when I'm gone she sees how much work it is and now shes ok with how many we have. Soo now I say tell God your plans and watch him change it. She just told me shes pregnant with number four now and I don't know to feel about it. I see my life and God knows my life. I see that three is enough but God doesn't agree with that. So now I'm not sure what to think and maybe should get a vasectomy but dont know the aftermath of having that done either.
God just wants to bless us

I’m afraid you can’t blame God for those babies, even atheists have children!

Over here in the UK is was common in the early 1900s to have families of 10
or more due to a lack of education about where babies came from (contrary to
what people were taught, the stork did not bring them).

Go get the snip or at least speak to your doctor about it and what it entails.
But it should be a joint decision as it’s not just about you.
 

Kyless123

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I’m afraid you can’t blame God for those babies, even atheists have children!

Over here in the UK is was common in the early 1900s to have families of 10
or more due to a lack of education about where babies came from (contrary to
what people were taught, the stork did not bring them).

Go get the snip or at least speak to your doctor about it and what it entails.
But it should be a joint decision as it’s not just about you.
God is in control weither a person will have a baby or not and my wife is for it
 

tourist

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I mean the test shows the fruitful days. Cant u go to planned parenthood or talk to a doctor. They can tell u what options there are and all tge pros and cons
I wouldn't go to Planned Parenthood as they will probably say to get an abortion because that's what they are all about.
 

Demi777

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I wouldn't go to Planned Parenthood as they will probably say to get an abortion because that's what they are all about.
Thats not all they are about. Its one out of many things. Just the abortion keeps getting magnified because of the gigantic numbers of them. But thats due to a lack of laws
 

TabinRivCA

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Thats not all they are about. Its one out of many things. Just the abortion keeps getting magnified because of the gigantic numbers of them. But thats due to a lack of laws
And a lack of available birth control in many areas. That's where planned parenthood comes in handy.
 

Ellorah

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Well let me be the first to congratulate you both on your sweet blessing to be. I work in the NICU and love babies ! I also pray for a big family. Look at it this way after three you are very experienced. You've got this !
 

tourist

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We wont. We are against and dont support them
That's good to know. That organization is evil. Who knows how many thousands and thousands of abortions they are responsible for.
 

TheLearner

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Avoid the vasectomy and her having surgery too. The vasectomy can lead to cancer. so I am told.