When I was around the age of 22, I worked at a retirement home. I was a server and in charge of the other servers that worked there. I was the topic of some ugly gossip that went around. My boss who was only a few years older than me was a nice guy. Married had a child, very friendly and fun to work with. I didn't see him outside of work, I didn't know where he lived. I met his wife a few times and liked her.
A friend of mine that also worked there told me that someone had been telling others that my boss and I were having an affair. I was sick that people would say that. It wasn't true and if something like that got back to his wife, it could ruin his marriage. I went to my boss and told him what was going on. He did his best to put a stop to it. Eventually I moved on to another job. I don't know who started the ugly rumor or why, but I can tell you I was deeply hurt by it.
I've never come across gossip on CC. I don't gossip because it's wrong. I'm not saying I never have gossiped, but I know it's wrong.
The bible has many things to say about gossiping this is one of them:
Exodus 23:1 - You shall not circulate a false report. Do not put your hand with the wicked to be an unrighteous witness. No matter who originates the accusation, we should not repeat and spread it unless we have substantial evidence it is true.
I didn't post this to start any drama. I just wanted to share how I feel about gossip.
God Bless
A friend of mine that also worked there told me that someone had been telling others that my boss and I were having an affair. I was sick that people would say that. It wasn't true and if something like that got back to his wife, it could ruin his marriage. I went to my boss and told him what was going on. He did his best to put a stop to it. Eventually I moved on to another job. I don't know who started the ugly rumor or why, but I can tell you I was deeply hurt by it.
I've never come across gossip on CC. I don't gossip because it's wrong. I'm not saying I never have gossiped, but I know it's wrong.
The bible has many things to say about gossiping this is one of them:
Exodus 23:1 - You shall not circulate a false report. Do not put your hand with the wicked to be an unrighteous witness. No matter who originates the accusation, we should not repeat and spread it unless we have substantial evidence it is true.
I didn't post this to start any drama. I just wanted to share how I feel about gossip.
God Bless