My husband has cheated on me and as I am forgiving him he later tells me after he finds out two days ago that the girl ay be having his baby. I don't know what to do. He as expressed his remorse, apologized and expressed how he wants our marriage to work. I am just not sure I can handle this. As a Christian I have been trying to forgive and forget but it is getting quite hard. I cried myself to sleep and then woke up crying. I am crying while I type this. Something in my soul says to forgive him, but my mind says dont be a fool. So honestly I don't know what to do anymore. Someone please give me scriptures or something that will give me some direction.
17 “The LORD your God is in your midst,
A victorious warrior.
He will exult over you with joy,
He will be quiet in His love,
He will rejoice over you with shouts of joy. (Zephaniah 3)
28 And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.
29 For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren;
30 and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified.
31What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who is against us?
32 He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things?
33 Who will bring a charge against God’s elect? God is the one who justifies;
34 who is the one who condemns? Christ Jesus is He who died, yes, rather who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who also intercedes for us.
35 Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?
36 Just as it is written,
“FOR YOUR SAKE WE ARE BEING PUT TO DEATH ALL DAY LONG;
WE WERE CONSIDERED AS SHEEP TO BE SLAUGHTERED.”
37 But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us.
38 For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers,
39 nor height, nor depth,
nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8)
That's what I have for you, dear child.
The Lord your God loves you. ♥
I wish I had a good answer to your dilemma, and I'm sorry, little one.
But never doubt for one second that your Abba loves you, tenderly and forever.
And I am praying for you right this minute.
love,
ellie