Why does God hate Esau?

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FreeNChrist

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13 As it is written, “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.” 14 What shall we say then? Is there injustice on God's part? By no means! 15 For he says to Moses, “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.” 16 So then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy. 17 For the Scripture says to Pharaoh, “For this very purpose I have raised you up, that I might show my power in you, and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth.” 18 So then he has mercy on whomever he wills, and he hardens whomever he wills.
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All it takes is a simple read through of the chapter where Paul addresses Esau and Jacob and their fate.

Your emotional response is addressed by Paul.
"For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that He may have mercy on them ALL." Romans 11:32
 

miknik5

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Great reminder. That kind of puts all flesh back in one category dependent on GOD doing for us what we can't do for ourselves
 

ForthAngel

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Great reminder. That kind of puts all flesh back in one category dependent on GOD doing for us what we can't do for ourselves
I think this is the whole point.

"For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that He may have mercy on them ALL." Romans 11:32
Because there is much more going on there than your doctrine will allow you to see.
No there really isn't. You are imposing things on the scripture that clearly aren't there. If you honestly look at Romans 9 and many of the things Paul, Jesus, and others have written/said, you can't come to any other conclusion. You think man deserves something from God and you tend to push equal ultimacy on me and others from my school of thought which we don't believe. The fact that God lets us even be born in the first place is an act of mercy on his part, much less live out our lives. In his mercy, he restrains the evil of men. This doesn't mean he saves everyone.

You quoted Romans 11 here. Did you read the whole chapter or rip out a verse that helps you feel better?

5 So too at the present time there is a remnant, chosen by grace. 6 But if it is by grace, it is no longer on the basis of works; otherwise grace would no longer be grace.


7 What then? Israel failed to obtain what it was seeking. The elect obtained it, but the rest were hardened, 8 as it is written,


“God gave them a spirit of stupor,
eyes that would not see
and ears that would not hear,
down to this very day.”
9 And David says,


“Let their table become a snare and a trap,
a stumbling block and a retribution for them;
10 let their eyes be darkened so that they cannot see,
and bend their backs forever.”
 

stonesoffire

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Yes I think i might be misunderstanding you
To me it sounds as if you are saying Adam is like Esau to GOD
No, the birthright that Adam had was son of God. They both lightly esteemed their heritage from their "fathers" in the face of temptation.

That's the point I am making. Esau's name was changed in a sense to Adam. It's a revelation word Miknik. Not a doctrine.
 

stonesoffire

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All need to be born sgain

i am not sure I am in agreement to the fuscussion

i am sorry

But out of "Egypt" GOD will call HIS SON
And Jacob was renamed Israel
Befire that..,before GOD called Jacob out and brought him in, he was outside GOD's covenant and promises

GOD may have sent Adam out, and all children born of Eve were born outside, GOD still provided a covering of skins (though temporal) until the PROMISE to mankind would come


All children born of eve (both male and female) are born of perishable seed The sin effected all.
There was only ONE PROMISED SEED spoken of for all "Adams".
Yes, this is true.

However, the seed for Jesus came from Father in heaven. If you look at the greek for word in one of the scriptures...it says sperma. Not all the words just certain instances. I would have to look to find it...just can't remember at the moment which scripture that is.

It sounded to me like you were saying that adams "sperm" had something to do with Jesus.

I may of misunderstood you.
 

stonesoffire

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If I'm slow, forgive me

Ill catch up

But Im having a hard time accepting that Adam/mankind was hated
Never mean't to infer this. The natural man that came from the fall is not acceptable to God. I see you say the same thing...
 
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I think this is the whole point.





No there really isn't. You are imposing things on the scripture that clearly aren't there. If you honestly look at Romans 9 and many of the things Paul, Jesus, and others have written/said, you can't come to any other conclusion. You think man deserves something from God and you tend to push equal ultimacy on me and others from my school of thought which we don't believe. The fact that God lets us even be born in the first place is an act of mercy on his part, much less live out our lives. In his mercy, he restrains the evil of men. This doesn't mean he saves everyone.

You quoted Romans 11 here. Did you read the whole chapter or rip out a verse that helps you feel better?

5 So too at the present time there is a remnant, chosen by grace. 6 But if it is by grace, it is no longer on the basis of works; otherwise grace would no longer be grace.


7 What then? Israel failed to obtain what it was seeking. The elect obtained it, but the rest were hardened, 8 as it is written,


“God gave them a spirit of stupor,
eyes that would not see
and ears that would not hear,
down to this very day.”
9 And David says,


“Let their table become a snare and a trap,
a stumbling block and a retribution for them;
10 let their eyes be darkened so that they cannot see,
and bend their backs forever.”
All of which leads Paul to this conclusion.....


"For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that He may have mercy on them ALL." Romans 11:32


 

stonesoffire

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Esau became known as “Edom” because he wanted the red stew. Edom means red. For roughly the next two thousand years his descendants after him would be branded with this single rash act of stuffing the belly (Phil 3:19). Isn’t that amazing? Think of why we’re called Canadian, or American, or Chinese, or whatever… can you imagine taking your national identity from a single instance of stuffing your face with stew? And yet that’s just what happened here.
Esau was serving his flesh, and in the process, he despised his birthright, which had been given to him by God. He sold his birthright – the right to be the next leader of the family – in favor of feeding his flesh. He valued his God-given right to leadership equivalent to a bowl of stew.
As a result, Esau becomes a type of the FLESH all throughout the Bible, wherever you find him or his descendants, the Edomites.
Adam means red...blood in the face. He must of blushed. Adam came before Esau-Edom. :)
 

stonesoffire

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And out of "Egypt" I call my son

GOD takes out of one kingdom and brings into THE KINGDOM as HE chooses

And right now all are in the kingdom of darkness until GOD in HIS GRACE and MERCY transfers us out of one kingdom and brings us into the kingdom of LIGHT in HIS SON whom HE loves

GOD is the ONE who calls and brings us into fellowship with HIS SON
Its because of GOD that we are in TRUE ISRAEL of GOD who is HIS SON
Another topic, but how does this fit into the world being reconciled through the Cross?
 

ForthAngel

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All of which leads Paul to this conclusion.....


"For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that He may have mercy on them ALL." Romans 11:32


Yeah but all doesn't mean all the way you are meaning it. The context is the grafting in of the gentiles through God's election. God hardened the hearts of the Jews and made a way for all (all people groups) to be saved. Romans 9 is the same subject.
 
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Yeah but all doesn't mean all the way you are meaning it. The context is the grafting in of the gentiles through God's election. God hardened the hearts of the Jews and made a way for all (all people groups) to be saved. Romans 9 is the same subject.
LOL. Oh, okay. :rolleyes:
 

stonesoffire

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Was it God Himself who hardened Pharoahs heart? Or did the acts of God cause a hardening of Pharoahs heart who thought he was a god?

Something I think about with these words of Pauls.
 

stonesoffire

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2Co 5:18  All of this comes from God, who has reconciled us to himself through the Messiah and has given us the ministry of reconciliation,
 

2Co 5:19  for through the Messiah, God was reconciling the world to himself by not counting their sins against them. He has committed his message of reconciliation to us.
 

2Co 5:20  Therefore, we are the Messiah's representatives, as though God were pleading through us. We plead on the Messiah's behalf: "Be reconciled to God!"
 

2Co 5:21  God made the one who did not know sin to be sin for us, so that God's righteousness would be produced in us. 

So, is this saying that God chooses some to go and tell the world that Jesus saves?

Or does He just hand pick his own...and the world goes to hell.

 

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Was it God Himself who hardened Pharoahs heart? Or did the acts of God cause a hardening of Pharoahs heart who thought he was a god?

Something I think about with these words of Pauls.
I think God hardened Pharaoh's heart to prevent Pharaoh from letting His people go. Romans 9 tells us God did this for his purpose that his power may be shown. If God hadn't hardened Pharaoh's heart, I think he would have conceded and let them go to save his own skin.
 

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Yeah but all doesn't mean all the way you are meaning it. The context is the grafting in of the gentiles through God's election. God hardened the hearts of the Jews and made a way for all (all people groups) to be saved. Romans 9 is the same subject.
Right, the key phrase being "...them all."
 

stonesoffire

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I think God hardened Pharaoh's heart to prevent Pharaoh from letting His people go. Romans 9 tells us God did this for his purpose that his power may be shown. If God hadn't hardened Pharaoh's heart, I think he would have conceded and let them go to save his own skin.
We see Pharoah differently. :eek:
 
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Was it God Himself who hardened Pharoahs heart? Or did the acts of God cause a hardening of Pharoahs heart who thought he was a god?

Something I think about with these words of Pauls.

I agree...here is one opinion on this subject which makes much sense to me.

Exodus 3:19 (NASB)
[SUP]19 [/SUP] "But I know that the king of Egypt will not permit you to go, except under compulsion.


Exodus 9:12 (NASB)
[SUP]12 [/SUP] And the LORD hardened Pharaoh's heart, and he did not listen to them, just as the LORD had spoken to Moses.


The way the Lord stated this isn’t saying it was the Lord who made Pharaoh not submit to Moses’ demands at the first. The Lord is simply saying He knew Pharaoh and that Pharaoh was so arrogant, he would not bow to the demands of any God. Pharaoh considered himself a god and made the people worship him as such.

Later, there are scriptures that say God hardened Pharaoh’s heart (Exodus 7:13; 9:12; 10:1, 20, 27; 11:10; and 14:8), but this is only after Pharaoh hardened his own heart against the Lord.

All the Lord did was take the choice Pharaoh had already made (to proclaim himself as god) and held him to it.

Likewise, the Lord doesn’t override our will unless we have already passed a point of no return. Then He can take our hardened hearts and harden them even further to accomplish His will, as He did with Pharaoh.

Andrew Wommack's Living Commentary.
 

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Esau was not in God's plan. He was born in sin by abraham and sarah,because they had no patience to wait on God. Sarah felt she was too old to bare children, so she made the decision to let abraham lay with her maid, and what man would not take up such an offer?
 
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Esau was not in God's plan. He was born in sin by abraham and sarah,because they had no patience to wait on God. Sarah felt she was too old to bare children, so she made the decision to let abraham lay with her maid, and what man would not take up such an offer?
Esau just like Jacob/Israel is the son of Isaac who was the son of the promise from Abraham and Sarah.

Perhaps you are getting him mixed up with Ishmael who was the son of the self-effort of Abraham and Sarah to bring about the "word of God" by his own human effort.
 

Gabriel2020

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you are right . thinking of the wrong one. thank you.