When people think of [your name], they think of [your reputation].
Is it possible for your actions to bring shame to other people,
bringing shame to your parents and to your family name.?
26He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother,
is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.
7Whoso keepeth the law is a wise son: but he that is a companion
of riotous men shameth his father. Proverbs 19:26; 28:7.
-Your actions can actually improve the reputations of other people.
You can bring honor to your parents and increase the family name
24The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice:
and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.
25Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.
-How can you improve your name and reputation? Proverbs 21:21; 11:27; 14:9.
How else can you harm your reputation? Proverbs 12:8; 13:5.
-If someone steals, he gets a reputation as a thief, they are [known by there fruits]
People can tell whether your actions are worthy of a good reputation or not.
"Even a child is known by his doings,whether his work be pure,and whether it be right.
-A person who does diligent work will be looked up to by others
29Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings;
he shall not stand before mean men.
5He that gathereth in summer is a wise son:
but he that sleepeth in harvest is a son that causeth shame.
26As vinegar to the teeth, and as smoke to the eyes,
so is the sluggard to them that send him.
-Gossip can harm someone else’s good name.
21As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire;
so is a contentious man to kindle strife.
28A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends.
-How did King David handle people who slandered other people’s names?
5Whoso privily slandereth his neighbour, him will I cut off:
him that hath an high look and a proud heart will not I suffer.
-You can improve your reputation by simply keeping certain things to yourself
28Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise:
and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
6Blessings are upon the head of the just:
but violence covereth the mouth of the wicked.
-Speaking about your own goodness does not enhance your reputation.
6Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?
2Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips.
-How do you obtain a good name and honor God’s way?
23A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit.
4By humility and the fear of the Lord are riches, and honour, and life.
Paul responded with a challenge: “EXAMINE YOURSELVES, whether ye be
in the faith; PROVE YOUR OWN SELVES” (2 Corinthians 13:5).
-Take a good look at yourself, Paul says. It is also needed to ask for God’s guidance.
2Examine me, O Lord, and prove me; try my reins and my heart.
The only way to build a solid reputation is to make sure your “doings” are pure and right.
Focus on living virtuously, and “[l]et another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth.”
As a young man, David had a good reputation 1 Samuel 16:18. He maintained
that reputation throughout his life, finding favor with God and man .
1 Samuel 18:30; Acts 13:22; 7:46.
“Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established”