divorced and confused

Well recently got a divorce cause 10 years of verble abuse is enough and I just left I guess I thought that he would call and want to know why I left but he did not and then he is with somebody else in less than 2 weeks, now he lives with her and I feel he never loved me and he was not a christian and god actually opened doors for me to get out and I took them.
So now 5 months later I wonder if I did the right thing, is there a way to start over and find another and do I really want it. I am 50 and now wonder if I will spend the rest of my life alone. I am scared of new relationship cause of what they always want and without a commitment and if I get married again can I be treated right. so hard to know how they are until after you marry them. My x was so loving and caring until after I married him and he changed and if he loved me how could he move on into somebody elses bed. I imagine I thought he would call and ask me back and we work on the relationship and when he moved on to the next girl I was confused but I am happier without all the arquing and him controlling me.
Even if he did call it may still not have worked and I know I am better off but it is so hard to find somebody else and my feelings about it. when I left I think he was more concerned over what I took than me being gone. I have a better relationship with my family now cause he had me not be around them and made them feel uncomfortable they are happy I left him but I am lonely on weekends and I pray god send the right man but do I look for him and how will I know he is sent by god?

so moving out was just an attempt to manipulate him into courting you all over again?

No how could you get that out of everything I said, Like I said even if he had it still may not have worked out and I know that it is just the first christmas without being married and just feeling lonely but I know that I did the right thing. He moved so fast on the divorce it would make your head spend but I am glad it is over. I just do not know if I will be alone the rest of my life and I did try for 10 years but it was past time for me to leave and like I said God opened the door and made alot of things just fall into play, I beleive that it was ment to be. I feel if I find someone that it would have to be a better relationship and that we have more in common. Did I mention there was a big age difference too? We never really did do the one that most couples have it was more like we were room mates sharing a house and ocasionally spend time together.