how can I be an amazing friend w/out getting bullied on here and in person ?

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rainin

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Just be yourself and roll with the punches... so to say. If you stand on the Word no force can come against you.
 
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Hi, rocking man!

I don´t have the key for any success, but I have seen you are kind, HONEST... I know you have said a couple of limitations you have (the very time you came into CC and wanted to be more than a member) Do you remember that? (I do)

Just be you! Those who really apreciate the way you are will tell you. Those who do not (will tell you too). Ha! Ha! There are words taht can´t be herad "nice" but some are sincere, honest, DIRECT. Just learn about you, who you are and who you wnat to be.

We cannot please the world. Just see Jesus (and the way many mistreated Him for the way He was (and the way He is).

Listen to what girls have to say (they always have a say) and be on your guard, because many would like to change you... It´s up to you to know WHO you want to be. Tips serve, but the real you cannot not be hidden too long.

Have a nice week, brother!
 
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who bullies you?? they are just jealous because you have special god given blessings, and some just don't know, or are not mature enough to understand the real meaning or purpose about what life is yet, hang in there..we are here for you!
 
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He actually is!

But there is a "hidden" risk in boldness: the arrogance that tends to bully. :(

We love you friend! (though I am one who do not seek friendships or things like that).

This site will help you to know more ABOUT YOU and of people (that´s a profilactic way to grow)
 
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kenthomas27

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What?


You talking to me, man?


Are you talking to me......

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wait a minute... heh heh. I had my musketeer hat on!

that was pretty stupid. Let's do this again....



you talking to me, man?

ARE YOU TALKING TO ME?

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tourist

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give me your best comment
Just relax and be yourself. After awhile it will become known to you who your true friends are here on this site. A true friend will have your back and will not tolerate another member mistreating you. There were some bullies during Jesus walk on earth too. He just said turn the other cheek. Yes, I know this is hard to do and requires prayer for strength to endure a hard situation with someone else without mistreating them in return.
 

Ugly

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Just relax and be yourself. After awhile it will become known to you who your true friends are here on this site. A true friend will have your back and will not tolerate another member mistreating you. There were some bullies during Jesus walk on earth too. He just said turn the other cheek. Yes, I know this is hard to do and requires prayer for strength to endure a hard situation with someone else without mistreating them in return.
I'd say you're about four years late.
 

tourist

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I'd say you're about four years late.
Yeah, it's a zombie thread but this guy was one of my first friends on this site. He has had a hard life struggling with autism and just trying to fit in somewhere. He's not a frequent regular contributor to the forums so one day I deleted him off my friends list. He sent me a PM saying that he was heartbroken that I could just simply delete him from my list causing him to vanish. I immediately added him back to my list and he has been there ever since and under no circumstances will I delete him from my list again. I noticed today that he visited my profile page so to offer encouragement I wrote a post in this old thread and left him a little message on his profile page to let him know that I still think about him.
 

p_rehbein

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Can't give you a "Rep," but IF I could, I WOULD!

:)



Yeah, it's a zombie thread but this guy was one of my first friends on this site. He has had a hard life struggling with autism and just trying to fit in somewhere. He's not a frequent regular contributor to the forums so one day I deleted him off my friends list. He sent me a PM saying that he was heartbroken that I could just simply delete him from my list causing him to vanish. I immediately added him back to my list and he has been there ever since and under no circumstances will I delete him from my list again. I noticed today that he visited my profile page so to offer encouragement I wrote a post in this old thread and left him a little message on his profile page to let him know that I still think about him.
 

oldethennew

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Praise God for Tourist and his Wife for their precious Love and Understanding and forgiveness -
and may our Holy Saviour forgive the 'knuckle-heads', who are still, we hope and pray,
trying to become mature and wise Christians'...even though they occasionally make
fools of themselves...