I am done

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WineRose

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#21
Oh no.

Oh. No.

I am so sorry that this garbage is happening to you. Hope that things get better for you.
 
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#23
Dear Lord, please strengthen Demi TODAY. Let Your Presence be felt by her in unmistakable and joyful ways. In Jesus Name I pray
And, please help Amory, too. I hate the helplessness when the cat is in that much pain that it screeches and nothing we can do soothes it. So, please give whatever is needed to both Demi and Amory, in such a way, as bad as Demi's week is going, she can't mistake the feeling of curling up in your arms and soaking in all the love and strength you're giving her and Amory.

Peace wildly above our imaginations.
 
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joefizz

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#24
Guys im just about done with life
Monday i nearly sufficated because someone sprayed deodorant TWICE in the classroom and i got an allergic reaction.
then tuesday u had a meeting because of the spraying and in the evening i hurt myself...got a lumbago im in pain like heck from a lumbago and was in the hospital yesterday... NOW today my cat amory (my baby!) who is 16 is dying. he wont eat or drink. pukes and screams in pain.. im just pretty much about ready to take him to the vet if i cant get him to drink.
I am so done. Its like hell is breaking loose all around me
I didn't want to talk on this without hopefully the right words,I'm sure things are tough for you to consider giving up,I myself right now have a pressurized head that has distorted my thinking but I plan to endure because things could be worse and I've endured alot of physical pain over the years and emotional struggles,but thinking on what awaits in the Lord's kingdom cheers me up,try not to let pain get to you,emotional and physical pain passes by eventually,you I'm sure have blessings on the way give it time and you'll be back to feeling positive again and find more in life.
 
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Thanks for the support guys. My cat is just not being himself
Usually he is always close to me but he is so sick he doesnt want to be touched. I will see how he is doing tomorrow. Its so hard and painful I for once dont know how to survive loosing my amory without going insane. He is such a blessing of God. When everything let me down I always had my amory. Now God wants to take him back home where he sent him from
I strongly suspect the Lord will give you something weird and noticeable at that moment and during that day. Something that would be considered "normal" to everyone else seeing it but a specific sign for you to let you know this is his good will for you and Amory.

I was feeling the same way when Bo was in my lap his last morning on earth. Had no idea how to live without him, since he was born at the end of college, so we had grown up together. And as his last act, he peed on me. Yes, I know that was what happens when we die, but along with the surprise of it, it was just so incredibly Bo-like that I had to laugh, knowing it was also a sign from God to me. One last moment with Bo being Bo, God being God, and life is still life even when it's over.

Many things happened that day, that it was a very teary, sad, funny day all at once. And much of that day includes memories of John and I crying together and laughing together. Something about family coming together in sadness makes the memories all the sweeter.
 
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Susanna

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Guys im just about done with life
Monday i nearly sufficated because someone sprayed deodorant TWICE in the classroom and i got an allergic reaction.
then tuesday u had a meeting because of the spraying and in the evening i hurt myself...got a lumbago im in pain like heck from a lumbago and was in the hospital yesterday... NOW today my cat amory (my baby!) who is 16 is dying. he wont eat or drink. pukes and screams in pain.. im just pretty much about ready to take him to the vet if i cant get him to drink.
I am so done. Its like hell is breaking loose all around me
I'll be praying for you, sister.
 
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jaybird88

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Guys im just about done with life
Monday i nearly sufficated because someone sprayed deodorant TWICE in the classroom and i got an allergic reaction.
then tuesday u had a meeting because of the spraying and in the evening i hurt myself...got a lumbago im in pain like heck from a lumbago and was in the hospital yesterday... NOW today my cat amory (my baby!) who is 16 is dying. he wont eat or drink. pukes and screams in pain.. im just pretty much about ready to take him to the vet if i cant get him to drink.
I am so done. Its like hell is breaking loose all around me
lil sis your way to young to be stressed out and sad. when i was that age i was so happy. thats sad about your cat, guess they have been with you since before you can remember. whats a lumbago? i remember people asking me if i had one but didnt know what they were talking about, or was it lobotomy . .? i really dont remember. my memory hasnt been so good since i was kicked in the head by that horse.
 

breno785au

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We all need to learn this, including myself in this culture we live in that tries so hard to avoid hardship to the point we crumble under any form for pressure. Where hardship is for our own benefit if approached appropriately :

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.
Romans 5:3*-‬5 NLT
 
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Tinuviel

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#29
Praying Demi! I am so sorry you're going through this.
 

Magenta

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We all need to learn this, including myself in this culture we live in that tries so hard to avoid hardship to the point we crumble under any form for pressure. Where hardship is for our own benefit if approached appropriately :

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.
Romans 5:3*-‬5 NLT


:)
 
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Demi, just read Spurgeon, and I think he is talking to you today, (as much as to me.)

“I will never leave thee.” Heb_13:5
No promise is of private interpretation. Whatever God has said to any one saint, he has said to all. When he opens a well for one, it is that all may drink. When he openeth a granary- door to give out food, there may be some one starving man who is the occasion of its being opened, but all hungry saints may come and feed too. Whether he gave the word to Abraham or to Moses, matters not, O believer; he has given it to thee as one of the covenanted seed. There is not a high blessing too lofty for thee, nor a wide mercy too extensive for thee. Lift up now thine eyes to the north and to the south, to the east and to the west, for all this is thine. Climb to Pisgah’s top, and view the utmost limit of the divine promise, for the land is all thine own. There is not a brook of living water of which thou mayst not drink. If the land floweth with milk and honey, eat the honey and drink the milk, for both are thine. Be thou bold to believe, for he hath said, “I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”In this promise, God gives to his people everything. “I will never leave thee.” Then no attribute of God can cease to be engaged for us. Is he mighty? He will show himself strong on the behalf of them that trust him. Is he love? Then with lovingkindness will he have mercy upon us. Whatever attributes may compose the character of Deity, every one of them to its fullest extent shall be engaged on our side. To put everything in one, there is nothing you can want, there is nothing you can ask for, there is nothing you can need in time or in eternity, there is nothing living, nothing dying, there is nothing in this world, nothing in the next world, there is nothing now, nothing at the resurrection-morning, nothing in heaven which is not contained in this text-”I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”

You are NOT alone.
 

Demi777

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#32
Demi, just read Spurgeon, and I think he is talking to you today, (as much as to me.)

“I will never leave thee.” Heb_13:5
No promise is of private interpretation. Whatever God has said to any one saint, he has said to all. When he opens a well for one, it is that all may drink. When he openeth a granary- door to give out food, there may be some one starving man who is the occasion of its being opened, but all hungry saints may come and feed too. Whether he gave the word to Abraham or to Moses, matters not, O believer; he has given it to thee as one of the covenanted seed. There is not a high blessing too lofty for thee, nor a wide mercy too extensive for thee. Lift up now thine eyes to the north and to the south, to the east and to the west, for all this is thine. Climb to Pisgah’s top, and view the utmost limit of the divine promise, for the land is all thine own. There is not a brook of living water of which thou mayst not drink. If the land floweth with milk and honey, eat the honey and drink the milk, for both are thine. Be thou bold to believe, for he hath said, “I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”In this promise, God gives to his people everything. “I will never leave thee.” Then no attribute of God can cease to be engaged for us. Is he mighty? He will show himself strong on the behalf of them that trust him. Is he love? Then with lovingkindness will he have mercy upon us. Whatever attributes may compose the character of Deity, every one of them to its fullest extent shall be engaged on our side. To put everything in one, there is nothing you can want, there is nothing you can ask for, there is nothing you can need in time or in eternity, there is nothing living, nothing dying, there is nothing in this world, nothing in the next world, there is nothing now, nothing at the resurrection-morning, nothing in heaven which is not contained in this text-”I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”

You are NOT alone.
May sound weird but ur surprisingly nice...in fact your scaring me

Amory was able to eat and drink today. He is almost like normal but i will be busy for sure.
 
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That's great news! Hope you are feeling better as well.
 

Demi777

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#34
naw my back is just a pain can barely get up at the moment. the pain meds dont seem to help a lot
 
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about Amory.

And I'll tell you what pain pill works for bad backs as soon as they find one that helps mine. (Don't hold your breath.)

But, TENS unit. Find out what it is and use one. They help. In the US, we can even buy one at drug stores now. (Don't know if it's the same in Germany.)
 

Demi777

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about Amory.

And I'll tell you what pain pill works for bad backs as soon as they find one that helps mine. (Don't hold your breath.)

But, TENS unit. Find out what it is and use one. They help. In the US, we can even buy one at drug stores now. (Don't know if it's the same in Germany.)
Well i got some novalgine..they kinds work
I gotta get thr tramadol and ibuprofen in the pharmacy tomorrow morning.
That should work. But i surely know that squishing and messinh up nerves in the back is a really baad deal.
Here u cant get meds in ddrugstores besides some plant stuff.
Everything u gotta get in the pharmacy, and often even prescribed.

Yea im glad amory is alright. Hes cuddling up to me. Still a bit grouchy but at least he seems like he hasnt quit fighting
 

shittim

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Yes, perhaps he is going home so you have yet another loved one to greet you in eternity.
I back dated my prayer, sorry I missed it yesterday.
Speaking a blessing over you and all in your life in Jesus Name.
blessings
 
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Just know that God holds us close and He perfects, establishes, strengthens, and settles us as we endure whatever suffering we go through in this life.

God loves us so much. Never forget that.

1 Peter 5:10 But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle
you.
 
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#39


Well?

Is the back improving yet?
 

Tommy379

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Jan 12, 2016
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It's a scary thing, when a woman says "I'm done."