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flowerof3

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I LOVE MY JOB, I LOVE MY JOB , the thing is my boss knows that i go out of my way to do whatever. last week my coworkers tried to gang up on me, i already know they bad mouth me , and it's actually another one that is part of that negative clique, normally i ignore and move on but not this time it was mean and heated i know had this happened in the parking lot it would have been physical thats how mad and angry she made me. they really started hating me when i started doing other things and i get good reviews , try to get along with others, i'm usually the one they have train people because i do it the right way not treat them mean they are hardly ever asked and if they train it's because i'm not there that day. they even have been going behind my back and lying about me saying that i don't do any work , and as i asked the supervisor if they are so busy watching me what are they doing ?? the old supervisor let them do whatever they wanted and even protected them. the one female has gotten into it with other coworkers also.. it's like she thinks she intimidate people and maybe she does but not me.. they act childish, ignorant and mean to coworkers and others that they choose to trash talk and try to get fired .. they hate it when you try to do better and you are happy.. the leader is the worst i'm mean worst person i have ever come across in my life i have never experienced anything like this on a job, their lives are also negative outside of work ,, i pray the minute i step onto the parking lot. i have to work with them tomorrow 3 demons as i see them sneaky , sly , evil patient, conniving , deceptive , manipulative .i have no kind words to describe them. i'm not going to let them RUN ME OFF THE JOB OR INTIMIDATE ME !!! the leader got cursed out by another coworker several weeks ago ..so it's not me..i was so embarrassed afterward because how ANGRY i had gotten and my boss had never seen that from me ...5 minutes earlier i had just read Psalms 23 and that's when they attacked**they will just sit there and watch you staring like they are calculating their next move and yes they are always watching me. and the other hard workers

i'm usually kind and nice, walk around humming , and in good spirits but this fight drained me

please keep me in your prayer because they are evil demons "(REALLY)
flowerof3
 
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Keep turning the other cheek. Allow Jesus to shine through your humbleness. You're leading a example that most should follow. I will pray for you. God bless.
 

T_Laurich

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I am sorry you have to go through this, but God has a plan... It seems like the cop-out thing to say... But one day you will look back and thank God for giving you that experience... It will only make you stronger.

God Bless....
 
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You are not alone flowerof3. I had the same experience than you at work. My coworkers got me crazy by speaking ill of me to boss and manipulating documents to show boss I caused problems in the heath care service where I worked. They just were playing with my life. Lastly the boss sent me in front of diciplinary Committe and I lost the job. They accused of something I didn't do and this because they saw me like a rival because my behaviour at work was following the rules and the laws while their didn't. In you case I think your coworkers are just jealous because you are working well. Don't give up and dont get crazy with them, just keep working as you did so far. I really think in God providence and I know God will give you a sign of love. Every person who treat badly another really they are hurting themselves; we need to pray for them because they are unconscious of it.
I'll pray for you

God Bless you
Cris
 

flowerof3

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Today i worked with them i didn't speak to them , i only had words for them if it pertained to the job

THANKS FOR YOUR PRAYERS
 
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Hatebook and online confessions is where i go to vent.
 
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Appraiser19

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Bullying in the workplace is the way to go. I read up on it and it is everywhere this days. I keep going around the same mountain until I decide to let God handle it. I go a promotion! I got out of my way and let God do his thing. I just keep doing a good job at work and focused on my ability to do my job. Now I have it easiers with open up the elementary school with lead pay, plus a raise in pay, too! Ask God he does know whats best for us and always do the best and you will recieve from him, his best for you! God Bless You and Your Family!!!
 

p_rehbein

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Lest we forget, we are commanded to pray for our enemies............sure, it's hard, but Jesus said to do it. We can't allow anger or ill feelings to rule our hearts..........otherwise, they really DO WIN. Pray FOR THEM. Seriously, and remember that a "kind" word turns away much wrath. Kill 'em with kindness, and lots of prayer.

YOU pray for them, JESUS WLL DEAL WITH THEM. That's His job, and He's good at it too.

Don't really matter how hard it is, 'cause Jesus said to do it.

(and I will be praying for you)
 

overcomer2

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I LOVE MY JOB, I LOVE MY JOB , the thing is my boss knows that i go out of my way to do whatever. last week my coworkers tried to gang up on me, i already know they bad mouth me , and it's actually another one that is part of that negative clique, normally i ignore and move on but not this time it was mean and heated i know had this happened in the parking lot it would have been physical thats how mad and angry she made me. they really started hating me when i started doing other things and i get good reviews , try to get along with others, i'm usually the one they have train people because i do it the right way not treat them mean they are hardly ever asked and if they train it's because i'm not there that day. they even have been going behind my back and lying about me saying that i don't do any work , and as i asked the supervisor if they are so busy watching me what are they doing ?? the old supervisor let them do whatever they wanted and even protected them. the one female has gotten into it with other coworkers also.. it's like she thinks she intimidate people and maybe she does but not me.. they act childish, ignorant and mean to coworkers and others that they choose to trash talk and try to get fired .. they hate it when you try to do better and you are happy.. the leader is the worst i'm mean worst person i have ever come across in my life i have never experienced anything like this on a job, their lives are also negative outside of work ,, i pray the minute i step onto the parking lot. i have to work with them tomorrow 3 demons as i see them sneaky , sly , evil patient, conniving , deceptive , manipulative .i have no kind words to describe them. i'm not going to let them RUN ME OFF THE JOB OR INTIMIDATE ME !!! the leader got cursed out by another coworker several weeks ago ..so it's not me..i was so embarrassed afterward because how ANGRY i had gotten and my boss had never seen that from me ...5 minutes earlier i had just read Psalms 23 and that's when they attacked**they will just sit there and watch you staring like they are calculating their next move and yes they are always watching me. and the other hard workers

i'm usually kind and nice, walk around humming , and in good spirits but this fight drained me

please keep me in your prayer because they are evil demons "(REALLY)
flowerof3
Drama in the workplace. Boy, I sure do not miss it. My mom used to tell me anytime work got hard to deal with, she would say, give it 6 months a workplace changes about every 6 months. Someone leaves, someone gets promoted, a new boss comes in, someone retires or their is a change of some sort in company. Sometimes knowing that in six months a change would come helped me to get through the next 6 months. You all should be taking some time off within the holidays, maybe the holiday distractions will break things up a bit.

Be praying for you.
 

Fenner

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I'll be praying for you flower. I had to walk away from a job once because of these same issues, it was a tough time.
 

Toska

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I will be praying for you. I am sorry you are having to deal with this at your workplace. I think many of us have been in your shoes at one time or another, we can relate to how difficult this is for you. In my experience, people who act like your coworkers are very unhappy people in their own lives. They are so miserable that they want everyone to be as unhappy as they are. Is it possible that this could eventually give you a chance to speak to any of them about the Lord?