I have been married 25 years. My husband is not a Christian. He has a gambling problem. We are in the midst of counceling but I don't know that I want to be married to him anymore. He is not happy, I am not happy. I don't know what to do. He spends a lot of time on his phone, he has a female best friend and he works with her. I do not like the fact that he has a female friend. I do not think it is right for him to do that. He has recently started drinking beer too. This is my first time doing anything like this. WE have two sons, they are grown young men.