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Jtjohnson

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Hey all, I am new and joined to get some helpful advice. So as of recently I have became a believer too the point were my baptism is set for a week from today. But I️ was struggling with an issue. My girlfriend and I had some loving issues that cause her to move out of an apartment with her sister. So she needed a roommate and couldn’t find one so I, living with my parents out of college at the time, decided to move out and we got a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apartment together. Well everything was fine until my best friend had his father pass and he needed a place to stay so I opened my door for him. That then pushed my gf and I to the same bedroom and bed. We have talked to one another and idk what to do since it is very open about not laying with someone as a wife that is not.
 
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Hi! Welcome to CC :)



Well, sleep in the same room with your friend... Or either you or your friend sleep on the floor(buy extra mattress if there is only one bed in the room.…choose the one which is you can fold and put on the side if the room is small). Leave your girlfriend alone in her room and don't try to share the same room with her...to avoid temptation you know...




God bless you ❤
 
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stillness

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Ask her in marriage, your headed in that direction: dont look at the problem look at the answer and learn to pray together with thanksgiving and wait on the Lord: to make room in your lives for His Love and dont be afraid to fail His Grace is sufiscient and His mercy new every morning.
 

tourist

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Hey all, I am new and joined to get some helpful advice. So as of recently I have became a believer too the point were my baptism is set for a week from today. But I️ was struggling with an issue. My girlfriend and I had some loving issues that cause her to move out of an apartment with her sister. So she needed a roommate and couldn’t find one so I, living with my parents out of college at the time, decided to move out and we got a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apartment together. Well everything was fine until my best friend had his father pass and he needed a place to stay so I opened my door for him. That then pushed my gf and I to the same bedroom and bed. We have talked to one another and idk what to do since it is very open about not laying with someone as a wife that is not.
Why is your best friend's father staying with you? The solution is to send this person back to his son. I can't imagine why you agreed to this in the first place. Two's company, three's a crowd. Problem solve. For now. After you lose this guy consider asking her to marry you as there will indeed be temptation. The odds of you both trying to avoid having premarital sex is almost zero.