the not kissing before marriage game

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RoboOp

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And I just now looked at your age Nana.. I thought you were a teenie bopper :D haha
 
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nanabean

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Sorry nana I didn't really mean you persay just responding in general... :D

I'm sorry too Robo. After re-reading my post, I find it could sound as though I was upset when I wrote it. Not the case!! Just wanted to point out what I meant. :)
 
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Arj7002

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Isn't the point of temptation (sex before marriage) supposed to make it worth it to wait? If kissing was truely evil, then why isn't IT a sin? In my eyes if you want to, go ahead and kiss. Just remember that the point of temptation is for the devil to try and make you fall. Your job as a Christian is to stay standing. So kiss all you want, just don't fall.
 
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nanabean

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And I just now looked at your age Nana.. I thought you were a teenie bopper :D haha

Oh sheesh!!! :confused: Now I don't know whether to:

1. laugh.....cuz even when young, I wouldn't have thought of myself as a teenie bopper....hahhaha!!! :p

2. be complimented.....cuz it's been a while since I was young enough to BE a teenie bopper!!! :) or......

3. Be insulted......cuz..seriously..do I sound that immature on here?? (I do seem to get taken the wrong way a bit!!) :(

In any case.....no true hard feelings!!! hahahhaa!! Take care!!!
 
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Abing

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hey don't knock arranged marriages....they have worked for centuries...they work better than free choice marriages in MOST cases....
i agree. hahahahhaha
 
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seventyxseven

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Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart (2 Tim 2:22)

This is just my opinion, but if God’s number one in my life, I’m going to do everything I can to please Him, in my relationships and everything else. There’s obviously nothing wrong with getting married. "It’s better to marry than to burn with passion." (1 Corinthians 7:9) But Scripture over and over warns against fornication, and commands us as Christians to dwell on what is pure and upright. (I guess I've never struggled with this, but I'm sure even just simple kissing could be a stumbling block for a lot of Christians. It doesn't necessarily invoke 'pure' thoughts...)

Also… We all know that we're supposed to’ love one another as ourselves’. If you really, truly love someone, wouldn't that motivate you to strengthen them in their walk with Christ? Will your kissing them before they’ve married either you or anyone else make them a better person in the future?


 

RoboOp

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No worries nanabean... :)

I guess I was kinda in the mode of fending off all the excuses from the teenagers here, so I wrongly assumed you were one of them! :D Well this is the Singles forum so ... so what are you and I doing here? :D
 
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nanabean

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No worries nanabean... :)

I guess I was kinda in the mode of fending off all the excuses from the teenagers here, so I wrongly assumed you were one of them! :D Well this is the Singles forum so ... so what are you and I doing here? :D

well...well...well....a coupla others...singles.... have told me I'M ALLOWED to post in here, that my opinions are welcome!!! So what's YOUR excuse??? YOU STARTED this thread in the Singles forum, young man!!!! (young MARRIED man!!!)



hahahhahaa hilarious!!! hahha fuuuuuuuuuuuunnnny!!!!!! :p
 

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well...well...well....a coupla others...singles.... have told me I'M ALLOWED to post in here, that my opinions are welcome!!! So what's YOUR excuse??? YOU STARTED this thread in the Singles forum, young man!!!! (young MARRIED man!!!)



hahahhahaa hilarious!!! hahha fuuuuuuuuuuuunnnny!!!!!! :p

*laughs* We love it when you drop in on us, Nanabean. You're welcome here anytime. ;)
 

RoboOp

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Well Nanabean, my excuse.. umm

Well I just kinda felt called by God to speak some sense into these young'ns :)
 
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nanabean

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*laughs* We love it when you drop in on us, Nanabean. You're welcome here anytime. ;)

AWWwwwwwwwwwww Thanks Seoulsearch!!! I really like all you people!!!
 
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nanabean

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Well Nanabean, my excuse.. umm

Well I just kinda felt called by God to speak some sense into these young'ns :)

Well......carry on!!!!! :)
 
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I think I would save my first kiss for marriage. It would'nt be that bad. It would be special and with the one that I want to be with for the rest of my life!!!!
 

RoboOp

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I mean, we're supposed to pray "Lord lead us not into temptation."

So, you pray for God to not lead you into temptation...... and then you go put yourself in temptation...... what sense does that make?

Or am I the only one who would be tempted from kissing/smooching/making-out/whatever?? :D
 

RoboOp

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I think I would save my first kiss for marriage. It would'nt be that bad. It would be special and with the one that I want to be with for the rest of my life!!!!
That's great loveangel. :)
 

seoulsearch

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Hey Robo,

I was just wondering--I'm assuming then that your first-ever kiss was at your wedding? In front of your guests? How was it? Scary or intimidating?

Just curious :). Hope I haven't put you on the spot but I was wondering what it was like!
 
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well...well...well....a coupla others...singles.... have told me I'M ALLOWED to post in here, that my opinions are welcome!!! So what's YOUR excuse??? YOU STARTED this thread in the Singles forum, young man!!!! (young MARRIED man!!!)



hahahhahaa hilarious!!! hahha fuuuuuuuuuuuunnnny!!!!!! :p
You are most definitely welcome in the singles forums Nana!
 
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SamIam

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Okay then :)

So you just kiss different guys before marriage, not lay down with them and totally "make out".

So..........

Your future husband will be thrilled to know that your tongue has been in the mouths of all these other guys (including some of the guys in the church that you both go to). Wonderful. :D

Im sure my future whatever... will be thrilled to know this as well